get 2 dildos...a smaller one to get use to penitration then a slightly bigger one to help to stretch you just a bit. Also get some Ky lube from the local pharmacy. Go slow...after you break the hymen just hold it there untill the pain stops then slowly start moving it till the pain completly stops. Practice for few days with the smaller one till there is no longer any pain and you can get it in and out easy. Then move on to the slightly bigger one. By then you should be ready for a real mans...
but I must say this...you sure you want to lose it to a guy just because he is hot? That is a bit lame...my advice is to go to your best male friend on the planet. One that has always been there for you and respects you. Give him your virginity and ask him to teach you. That way you will have a good experience losing your virginity and have no regrets about your first time with a guy.
What? You can't pop your own cherry in terms of losing your virginity but if you're talking about breaking the hymen then I assume you have fingers. You could try inserting a vibrator and I've been told that horse riding can also do it. I live in the Middle East where there is a lot of pressure on women to be virgins (ie hymen intact) until they marry but if you've ever been on a camel, I think the hymen would break before the beast has even fully stood up, so you could always try that. Try not to travel too far though, it's the world's most uncomfortable form of transport.
Your hymen may already be broken from sports, tampons, or masturbation. It's also possible that your hymen won't bleed. It doesn't always hurt and bleed when it breaks, and sometimes it just gradually stretches and doesn't actually break. Some women even give birth without breaking their hymens. Everyone is different. In fact, some girls are born without hymens.
I wouldn't worry about it. But if you want to make sure it won't be an issue, masturbate to stretch yourself out a bit and get a feel for what you might be dealing with.
just tell him you're a virgin, I reckon he'd enjoy it all the more. otherwise, fingers, tampons, vibrator, horse riding. just tell him straight he'll probably be able to tell anyway from your movements and reactions unless he's a virgin too.
When I lost my virginity there was no blood and no pain...a lot of women tear it without even noticing either with sports or tampons or just stretching even...don't freak out over it, if anything just tell the guy you're a virgin...
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It's not embarrassing, it's natural.
Just tell him you're a virgin.
But if you really want to do it yourself, I suggest fingering yourself. You could also use something shaped like a penis (but thinner to start with).
I agree withthe previous answer; he may really like it. Though I can also tell you that an ex girlfriend of mine used a carrot :S which broke her hymen (for her first time... Not me!)
How about riding your bike around for a couple hours.
You might want to check with him first. He may not mind the fact that you're a virgin.
Go to an ice cream parlor
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