Why do women prefer men with sexual experience?
But claim to dislike players, who are the only guys by definition, that are most likely to have a lot of sexual experience? Seems like a bit of a contradiction
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What Girls Said 4
It is a bit of a contradiction. Just as lots of guys claim to prefer virgins yet also want a girl who will know how to satisfy them and is confident and attractive.
But many girls certainly don't regard virgin men as losers. Many also prefer virgins. It's just that there are both pros and cons to being a virgin and to not being one, for both genders.
Consider it a toss up.
All players might have sexual experience, but not all who have sexual experiences are players.
If a girl says she enjoys a guy with sexual experience, she enjoys a guy with sexual experience.
If a girl says she enjoys a player, she enjoys a player. (eeek, never).
Specifications can not be intertwined with broad interpretations, generalizations, and assumptions.
Take things for face values when they are given to you as just a statement, don't read into it too much.
sexual experience - a 20 year old guy who slept with 1 or 2 girls
player - a 20 year old guy who slept with every girl in his town
see the difference?
What Guys Said 2
Knowing how to pleasure a woman - and - "trying to pleasure every woman".. Are completely separate categories. A large portion of having sexual experience will give you the tools necessary to pleasure a woman...BUT if you were to stick around and sleep with one woman for a longer-duration of your life, the sex will become better.
And as a side note, I notice that the guys who "have sex a lot" are a lot more ambitious/positive/confident in life.. They aren't as pissed off or jaded, and they tend to be a lot more fun.. Just throwing that out there, but I can't back it up - as it's only an observation.