How do you tell if a guy is bi ?
How do you tell if a guy is bi ? how do you tell if a guy is bi ?
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I'm not sure if there are any outward signs that can tell if a guy is bi, unless you see him dating both sexes.
Depending on your relationship with the guy your wondering about (if there is in fact a guy you're wondering about), you could always ask him, if he's mature he'll answer you as such and more than likely follow up with "why do you ask?"
Of course if you're not exactly close to this guy (intimatly or otherwise) then it's probably not a very good idea to just come out and ask him, so you're gonna be left wondering.
What Guys Said 4
Look very carefully at his mouth. Now, ask yourself this critical question. . . Is there a penis in it?
Girls have misconceptions about what makes a guy bi, like guys have misconceptions about what makes a girl a lesbian.
But a guy who is actually Bi is often discreet and has enough self-respect that it will seem counter-intuitive if you could suddenly magically be able to tell which guys are bi and which ones are not.
There are a lot of girls out there who think a guy who likes kinky stuff like being on the receiving end of anal play or looking effeminate are signs of bisexual or homosexual tendencies.
I've got a question for you though, why do you want to know how to tell the difference between a straight guy and a bi guy? Are you bisexual yourself? Or bi-curious?
What Girls Said 2
I'm pretty sure there is no real, 100% fool proof way of finding out if a guy is bi or not without just coming right out and asking him. I know a few guys who dress well, do their hair, stand up straight, have excellent posture, and people have told me "Oh, he's bi, you can just tell by the way he acts and dresses." And honestly, these are guys who grew up with only their mum and sisters, therefore giving him a more metro-sexual look. Guys are just as entitled to take more concern in their appearance as girls are.
So, in short, there's really no easy way of looking at a guy and deciding that he's gay, bi or straight. There are no visual signs for that. The only way to really get a definitive answer is to ask him out right and hope he doesn't take offense. Because honestly, how would you feel if someone walked up to you and said "Are you bi?" Pretty uncomfortable if you're straight, right?
Hope this helps.