Should I hide my erection, ignore it or let her know it's there?
We hugged before a few times and she must have at least felt it poke her. Once we were making out and she straddled my leg and she leaned back like "what's that" and then we both looked down and I am not sure if she noticed it because it wasn't poking out or anything but I just said "dunno" and we just made out more.
We're both 16 and have done nothing sexual yet. Is it OK to sometimes have an erection with her. It's not fair that girls can hide being turned on so easily. I know I have turned her on before though cos when we get hot and heavy and I feel her breasts her nipples go hard. I like that feeling, does she like feeling my erection against her? or is it a turn off?
Girls, what do you think?
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I think it's a HUGE turn on. And it will let her know you find her attractive. She may even want to help resolve the issue.
if you're making out with somebody, you're going to get hard. it doesn't take a genius to figure that one out. tell your girl to relax a little and take a breath yourself. you haven't been sexual ever and now you're experiencing it. you're of course going to be horny and having boners every which way because you're thinking and feeling things that have never happened before. it's not a turn off at all. I would be worried if I was making out with a guy and he didn't get hard. it would make me feel like I was doing something wrong, haha. it's okay, just have fun with each other.
I think if anything it makes her feel good that she is turning you on, and she isn't the only one feeling that way. I personally like feeling it. it makes it more mysterious and more hot and sexy when you can feel it through the pants.
well depending on how long youve been dating and if your considering having sex or not she may or may not. Personally I think that if she def doesn't want sex right now, and it happens then its just like a pressure almost, like she thinks oh shit he wanst to have sex, but if she considers it then you being turned on probably turns her on too, because she knows your having fun or w/e, don't worry too much about the pressure thing, if your already going places, such as up her shirt she's probably not that worried an di would tend to go with the second scenario
The way I see it, if you can't be totally open with the girl your with, and you can go as far as making out and feeling her breasts then you should be able to tell her those things. An erections is something that happens to all guys and I'm pretty sure all girls know it happens. If you tell her and she gets mad or grossed out then forget about her. Go find a different girl who will like you for you who are and for the natural thing that happends to everyone. and I also think its a total turn on!
Just try hide it( obviously, so she notices) and say its embarresing or something like that. If she likes the idea, she'll smile or do something significant, if not it will be like one of those awkward silences. I did this and it had pleasing results :) try it