I caught my girlfriend sexting another guy. Is it wrong, should I trust her?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend and I started off in a good relationship everything was fine no problems. We started living together and on one trip got into a huge fight. After the fight she grew distant even when I apologized to her. A few weeks later we were going to bed and she asked me to close down her computer. I notice she had a site ope mygirlfund.com where you send sexy pics to guys. I got suspicious and snooped in her phone(yes I was wrong). I saw she was texting another guy both saying raunchy things they want to do to each other. I confronted her and she said it was a mistake she didn't know why she sent them and that she would stop. She said she was sorry and I apologized about snooping. Now she hides her phone from me and I am wondering if it actually stopped or is she mad that I snooped. I want to believe her but still start thinking about what was said in the text and start doubting our relationship. Wondering what I should do?

[Bodycology]

F***. That blows. You should sit down and talk to her about how you're feeling. Don't mention that you want to want to see her phone, instead just ask her that since those things happened you've been feeling a little inadequate or something. Tell her you want an honest relationship and that you want to be able to talk about these things without fighting when they happen because that risks the relationship.

Focus on repairing your newly formed trust issues, I don't think she is talking to anyone else. tell her you're just a little insecure and think you could rebuild that if you both had access to eachothers phones and computers every so ofthen

[Asker]

Thank you for the advice

[h3lpm3plz]

its best that you have a serious conversion with her and try to sort out any underlying feelings you have against each other. if things do not improve or progress mannerly, proceed to break up with her and see how things go from there.

[lamebabe]

MGF is a site for girls to make money, really. The girls there flirt with the guys and the men pay $1 a message and pay for the pictures/videos girls send them. She's probably not really interested in those guys, but just trying to make extra income. Still, it was wrong of her to talk to you about it.

[Summersunshine44]

:'( That's terrible! NO ITS NOT OK! You should not trust her! She is still doing it I bet you. I pulled a stunt like that once.

[Brando]

Goooooodbye girlfriend

[slipslender]

she's not trustworthy... :/ not relationship material

[sikoo31]

dump her ass!

you were wrong, but she was... wronger.

[Godfatherman]

how would she feel if you were sexting another woman?

[Asker]

That's what I first asked her and she said she guesses she would be mad.

[Godfatherman]

damn right she would... she disrespected you.. you got to figure out if she can be trusted or not.

[irykiryk]

Dump her. Feel the power when she comes crawling back!

[kyler25]

dump the hoe

[supernova777]

Confront her about it. You may want to believe her but she may be using that against you. It is entirely wrong to be sexting someone else when you are in a relationship. If she's really not into the relationship now, then it would be time to part ways. If she cares and wants to continue with you, then she will want to sit down and have a serious convo about it. Good luck.

[Asker]

Thanks for the advice. I think this is the best so far an adult convo.

[Anonymous]

f*** her off bro! no need for that sh*t in a relationship