He wants to put ice cubes in my butt?

So my boyfriend likes anal and anal play a lot. And he came up with this putting ice cubes in my butt. I find it a bit odd, but I'm OK with it, I was just wondering if there any risk to it? If anyone could give advice here it'd be much appreciated
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  • I've done it, but you want to be careful with it. Don't let him fill ass with cubes -- this can freeze rectum and You don't want that. I suck the cubes till they are smooth, then push them in ass with tongue. This makes them SMALLER too. It can be intense, with a cool butt hole and a hot cl*t being rubbed. I have put cool liquid -- not ice -- in a girls butt using an enema bottle I washed out. She LOVED that feeling of rectum starting to spasm when I f****ed her ass, and this made it more intense. You know that feeling as if you have to use bathroom but you really don't? If you just don't clench, it can help you cum. The point of putting all these thing in a girls butt is to get her to come harder. Did you try it? Did it work? Love to know!

    • ya we did try. It wasn't that great it did hurt a bit when he put it in and then after they melted I felt nothing

    • Did he suck the ice cube first to smooth out the edges? Even if he did, it is a long way to go. Some girls like a cube in vag, but ice is only sexy to some. I don't like cold things -- except maybe to harden up her nipples.

    • no he didn't but I don't think I would like it then either

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  • I once did something very similar with my girlfriend, but I didn't actually insert ice cubes into her butt. I used to just rub ice cubes on her breasts, stomach, pussy, and butt hole, but I only slightly inserted it into her pussy, never in the butt hole. But ice cubes are very slippery so you have to make sure that you don't push them in too far.

    • Are people forgetting they melt...

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  • No no no. How would you get them out? They could slip in too far and even though they will eventually melt, it could be a serious problem, and SERIOUSLY uncomfortable. It's not safe to insert anything that isn't shaped in a way that prevents it from completely going in. It should have a handle. Do NOT insert slippery little ice cubes.

    • DO NOT!

    • well they will melt, so I don't getting out will be a problem. is there anything else

    • The skin inside is extremely sensitive and used to high temperatures. It's not intended to deal with things being inserted (it's an "out hole", not an "in hole", and friction can be dangerous) let alone freezing cold ones. You know how it feels to touch an ice cube for a long time, right? At first it just feels cold, but if you touch it long enough, it becomes a really uncomfortable ache. Having that going on inside your butt sounds entirely unpleasant to me.

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  • If it were my man asking me this, my first thought would be wtf? and secondly I would tell him to stick an ice cube up his ass and see if he likes it first...

    • hahahaha

    • Way to demonstrate EXACTLY the type of attitude which prevents couples from being truly open and honest... I bet you expect complete honesty when you are referring to your relationships rules? I hate to tell you that complete open honesty is much more difficult for the listener than it is on the person who is sharing something. It’s easy to allow your partner to be open and honest when it’s somethng you want to hear or it’s a trite non-issue... it gets a little more challenging when it’s real and may rub against beliefs or personal preference. This kind of prohibition on individual thought is what drives couples to others for fulfillment and information when their partners either shut them down *see this poster above, or they shame them into redacting and hiding it until they find outlet elsewhere. If you trust your partner then trust them.. let them Be open and honest and start it off by you trusting them enough to be open and honest with them. Encourage them Talk out concerns.

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  • It will NOT hurt you. It is almost a strange request but I guess kinda hot if you are into "anal play"

  • Hahaha lol maybe just freeze the crap outbof you. But it will probably melt fairly quick

  • frostbite

  • I see so much concern about frostbite and pain. I love anal play with ice. My girl loves it and I do too. The ice melts extremely quickly, much faster than I would like. The inside of the rectum is very warm. Ice does not cause first bite in there. It melts too fast. The only thing I would say can cause pain and possibly frostbite is when I use frozen glass anal plugs. Those are very cold at first, but the temperature warms within less than five seconds.
    To those curious, give it a try. Yes the ice needs to be wet at first. Hold some ice on your partner’s rectum of have them do you. Try it on the edge and then slowly put it in just a little bit. It feels absolutely AMAZING! 🥶 shiver woohoo we go even further. We freeze water based lube and even save loads of cum and she likes me to put 20 loads frozen into ice up her butt. Seeing my cum melt and drip out turns me on ssoooo much.
    Give ice play a chance

    • OMG, that sounds amazing. I try that tonight thank you.

  • There probably is in your anus. Ice will burn the freeze/burn the surface and expose you to infraction. I've put them in my girl's Vag, but I move them around. She likes the sensation.

    • why is it OK in your vagina, but not your butt i mean wouldn't it freeze the surface there too

    • It's easier to remove things from your vagina and it's just a completely different body part.

    • It is looser and contains protective mucous. And you don't let it stay in one place. An anus is very tight, jas little mucous and the ice cube would stay in one place.

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