I think you shouldn't have gotten yourself in to that situation 3 times, once maybe a mistake, twice is careless, 3 times is just wreckless. I'm sorry, I am not having ago at you or judging you, but that is my honest opinion and how I feel and I speak my mind. If you don't care how he feels about it, then why are you even asking on here? you say they just want to power your decisions, yet you are asking us for a decision. If you don't care how they feel about it, you don't care about them, which in that case you shouldn't be sleeping with them in the first place if you think so low of them. You said you've made your decision, so how can they over power it? only if you let them! I think they have a right to know, but I think ultimately it is your decision as it is your body and I think that is something a lot of men don't understand.
tbh I really don't want his opinion, and I don't really care about anyone but me
Well then, there's your answer, why ask US if you only care about your opinion? it sounds like either you've already decided, in which case I don't know why you bothered posting the question or you are a very sad woman who doesn't really want to get another abortion at all and just wants the father to care and say he wants to keep the baby and to be with you, which you feel he is probably not going to want.
actually the last abortion I had the father wanted the baby,but I still got one cause I hate kids
I always think that putting yourself in their shoes is the best. So if you had sex with a girl and she got pregnant, would you want to know? Would you want to be a part of the decision on keeping it or getting rid of it?
If it was me then yes. It is as much my baby as hers and I want to be a part of the decision making.
no why would I want to know. then I wouldn't have to pay child support
taking responsibility for ones actions? a baby is a baby, it is a part of you in an other person. I would want to know
its just a clump of cells
If you went to a sperm bank then NO you don't need to tell him, yet if it was you previous boyfriend. I think you should tell him and stop being so freaking selfish for once. This isn't all about you, I think he does has say if he knows but do as you please. I see you don't give a f**k about anyone except yourself. I would be glad to get rid of you too.
A life isn't a freaking toy and shouldn't be thought of as an inconvenient to you and your ways. Stop servicing guys as your there spouse and these problem will be minimal. Keep your legs close to penises and get a dildo!
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Abort as many as you like and I won't have a problem with it...just giving my two cents.
so now it's a life? I thought it was just a bunch of cells. it's really not a big deal
i'll probably have more
She didn't have to tell him about the beginning of the pregnancy, she shouldn't have to tell him about its end.
P.S.: "I think guys just want power of my decision" The whole fight, right there.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!legally there is no need to tell the father, but I think they deserve to know, while at the end of the day the decision is yours the creature being expelled is half of him too, he need to realize that what he does has consequences not to mention its only fair you get him to pay for at least part of it. now in marriage I think there should be legal obligation to tell the father
there is no real need to tell them. in the end the decision is mine and it would only cause more drama. it would make more sense not to tell him anything
no it would be more convenient not to tell him, that dosnt mean its what should be
if I had to then I would. but I see no reason to
I'm totally pro choice but it seems as if you're using abortions as birth control. That frankly is disgusting. As you may or may not know it can also affect the health of your future children and your ability to have them. In this day in age abortions should really not be necessary with all of the birth control options available. Stop being irresponsible for your sake.
abortions aren't a big deal. I never want children, and all my abortions were OK. why do you have a problem with multiple abortions? They're just little clumps of cells.
wow! we just see it differently. I won't waste my time trying to explain because if you don't understand what the issue is you will never understand.
wow this is so disgusting but so amusing
women like you get to make the call whether a child dies or a man has to invest his hard earned money into a bastard he fathered with a whore
oh shut up.. if guys don't want to pay child support they should keep it in their pants where its safe. and yeah I can have as many abortions as I want
Fee Fi Fo Fum...I smell a troll as forthwith she comes...either that or shouldn't be allowed to run around loose...
multiple abortions aren't really that bad. why do you make such a big deal out of it. I can understand if you're pro-life, but if you're pro-choice why do you care what I do with my body? it's just a clump of cells
You know there's something called birth control. Comes in many forms, like condoms and pills. These keep you from getting pregnant and killing the child. Try it sometime. Talk about irresponsible.
it's just a clump of cells
That breathes. You're just a clump of cells too. Skin cells, blood cells, brain cells, T-cells, etc. Try to be knowledgeable, but considering you're too stupid to use birth control I don't expect much brain power. Besides, you're a troll anyway.
i take it your pro-life
Abortion is murder...and another thing is the father should not help pay for an abortion if he wants the child...
Sterilization?
nope,i prefer abortions
Well it's his decision to, he helped get you pregnant and its just courtesy that he be involved in the decision. I concede it is your body and the final decision should be yours. Barring the moral issues of 3 abortions its not just a power of decision thing for guys. It could drastically affect his life and how he feels about you and having a kid. I personally would be furious if I found out somebody had an abortion and didn't tell me...much less 3
why would it be your business. it's her body
I agree. Just because you tell him and disapproves, it doesn't mean you need to do what he says. But informing him about it would be the most proper thing
Because he's involved in it. I'm not sure you understand this but a guy getting a girl pregnant is a big deal to us. I'm not saying do what he says but its his business if he's the dad.
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