How can I make my hole smaller now?

[Anonymous]

Answers from both men and women and experts expected. I have a serious problem, I'm 22 and was in relationship with a cheater who I thougt was going to marry me as he used to say. But the f***** was behind me only for sex and I gave myself to him thinking he would marry me. He was 5'7" with good physique, bulky and his d*** very large and longer in length and I'm a girl who is 5'1", slim. I have had sex with him a many times the count of wich is hard to recall for me. It has been almost a year now since he cheated me and now preparing for marriage with one of his co-workers who is a bitch and still my vaginal hole is in enlarged state, into wich 2 fingers can easily be inserted and 3 if tried. My parents are looking for a guy for me and I have just been sayin no to every guy they show for the only reason and fear that my vaginal hole is big and any guy with d*** smaller than his can easily kno the truth. somebody please help me with a best solution that can give me immediate results without causing any harm. I would be expecting your quick and best answers.

[genevieve]

It will never go back into it's original state but two fingers doesn't sound all that bad to me, don't worry bout it. You can do Kegels but I'm not sure how well they work and they'll take some time.

Why do you let your parents look for a guy for you? why not do it yourself?

[Asker]

I have lost trust in love and moreover have no time to waste running behind my boyfren to find out whether at least he is being loyal or a cheat like the other. I have already wasted a lot of precious time of my lyf on the other and don't wanna repeat it again.

[genevieve]

alright we've all been disappointed at some point, no reason to just give up love at all. Also I don't understand why you want to get tighter down there? Do you want to tell him your still a virgin? He shouldn't care if your a virgin or not, find someone who loves YOU and not your vagina

[Asker]

yes gotta tell him in still a virgin no other what becoz this is india a country which has one rule for a girl and different rule for a guy. To the people here a guy who has f***** a lot of girls before marriage and continuing to f*** them even after marriage is still a gud guy but a girl, even if she is a rape victim is not treated the same way. If the people around or even guy whom she gets married to comes to know this dark truth of her life then they put her under darkness for the rest of hr

[Asker]

Got to, no othr way. I'm frm a country wich has 1 rule fr women and different rule fr men. To the people here boy having physical level affair eithr befor or aftr marriage is nt wrong or sin bt if a girl does it then shez gone. She is treated lyk a whore wid no respect even if she is too gud as a person nobdy would like her specially women and men married or unmarried who till then ws respectin her would nw have his D*** erected wenevr he sees her, marriage remains jst a dream. I hate indians

[genevieve]

oh wow that's horrible In that case, have you thought bout moving? to a country that is a bit more liberal? Or if its even worth getting married? Do you make money on your own? You don't need a man then. Other than that, I think if it is that way in your country, I think men deserve to be lied to. Just squeeze you muscles together act nervous and tell him your a virign.There's really no way to know for a guy

[genevieve]

btw there is surgery for that but I don't think any man is worth that. But really he can't know if your a virgin or not, so he has to believe you. And two fingers is not that bad, I know girls who actually still were virigns and could put 2 fingers in. It's really your country is so unfair in that area

[Asker]

No moving out may not be a possible thing with me though I decide to and get an oppurtunity because my parents are very muchh corcernced about me and I don't think they would let and if I'm allowed then its only with the person I marry.

[Asker]

And ya about country people I have hated it since I was a child and the difference now is that I hate it even more:) and feel like killing them who have made these pointless rules which can go upto an extent of ruinin 1's life completely for their entire life tym. You kno thre are girls in rural side who have taken their lives bcz of 1 silly stupid reason and also widows who widout choice have remained widows throughout their life for the sake of society and men that hav lost wives can marry 2nd tym

[queenofpeen]

Two fingers sounds pretty normal, but if you really want to make it tighter, I recommend Kegels. link They tone the muscles down there, which is not only good for tightness, but it also improves orgasms and prevents incontinence and prolapse (ew) when you're an old lady, haha.

[Asker]

but dear with kegels the results are often late I had googled it before and all sites providin info on it say the result is late and can take years for best results.

[queenofpeen]

Hm, I saw a difference in only two weeks. Maybe it's just all in my head, haha.

[Asker]

anyways thanks for the link and let me try and see what happens. Last hope:)

[JonJames]

Learn anal.

[Butterfly_kisses09]

Kegals. Google it.

[Asker]

Isnt there any pill, gel or a spray to make it tight at least for that moment if not permanently like guys have for increasing their d*** size?

[Butterfly_kisses09]

Umm no. And none of that crap increases d*** size either. Sorry all you can do is strengthen the muscles down there.

[JonJames]

Butt plug in ass makes front feel a lot titer...

[34acup]

Don't worry, 2 fingers is pretty tight. I have to use 4 before I start to stretch.

[Asker]

u must be married and havin kids. Sorry I donno what your age is but I'm only 22 and this is the condition I'm in at such a young age. Above all I'm unmarried and every1 thinks I'm pure and virgin which is not.

[34acup]

Yep, married no kids though. I've always been a size queen I guess.

[Asker]

hey did your husband have any doubt or ever complained that he doesn't feel it when he goes inside? or have you experienced anythin of that sort ever ?

[34acup]

He's never asked to be tighter. We actually had a period where we didn't have sex much and I guess I did tighten up a bit because he noticed and said that her preferred me to be looser. When we were first going out and I would give him a hand job, I would have a nice tight grip, but he kept saying to do it looser and looser until it was a gentile glide over his penis.

[Anonymous]

are you getting arranged marriage ?

[Asker]

Yes and that's the problem.

[Opinion Owner]

I'll be in a similar situation one day :[ all I know is that your hole will get smaller with time if nothing goes in there..

[JonJames]

He sill probably be doing anal mostly anyway. That is how arranged marriages go. So -- problem solved.