Why do people think I'm a slut?

[Anonymous]

People think that I am a slut, I have no clue why. I don't have a lot of boyfriends, and I'm not all over guys. I don't wear short skirts or anything.i sometimes wear low cut tops but it's the style and so is everyone else. Guys say they don't think I'm a slut but the girls do.Some people say it's just because I have "matured" in looks faster then everyone else.and bigger in a certain place. But that shouldn't have anything to do with it. What do you think ?

[Simple-Simonette]

It's sad that in order for women to "level the playing field" they put down other women. In order to deal with their own insecurities, they spread rumors about you. It says more about these girls that about you.

Unfortunately, that isn't going to help stop the spreading rumors.

If you are happy with keeping your chin up and showing people you are above all that - good for you. There are some people who will look past the rumors. If you want to stop it, or at least curb it, you can confront the women saying this about you. I don't know how comfortable you are about confrontations, but most "bullies" back off when confronted.

Don't let this negatively affect you in the long run. Most people deal with jealousy with spitefulness. That has everything to do with them and nothing to do with you.

[Asker]

Naww these people aren't the kind that back off if you confront them, they do it more, include their friends more.. I've done it before.

[Simple-Simonette]

Then you'll just have to deal with it, which really sucks. Where is this happening at - school or work? Do you have friends who stick up for you?

[The-lady-]

Babe it is called ENVY and since they have no other way to hurt you they called you and treat you like a slut just to pissed you off, outcast you and take attention away from you! Find a great group of friends and don't let them put you down, If they know these bothers you they are winning! Don't let them win!

[pearl1979]

You know what the girls are just envious. When I get a lot of attention from guys other girls put me down. or look at me mean. I don't sleep around. Just be you forget about them.

[Asker]

Yeah, like sometimes I go to dances/clubs whatever you wanna call them, and people comment that grinding is slutty ext, My school is so up tight about things. I want everyone to grow up. :P

[Little-Hippie]

Why do you care what the WOMEN think?

Have you learned NOTHING from Human history?

[vag1212]

it's just because of the controversial nature of girls.

[l-hedoniste]

The girls who call you a slut, dislike you.

[mony26]

simple plain jealousy.