i feel extremely insecure about my boobs they are pretty big and I'm a short skinny girl. I feel like they sag so I don't want to show my lover my breast and he really wants to see them.. I don't know what to do
Big boobs will sag a little bit, that's normal and part of the territory, but that's fine and nothing to worry about. All he will be thinking about is "wow, big awesome boobs that I get to play with and enjoy." Trust me; nothing else will even enter his mind.
Real boobs are so much better than fake ones. I've never heard of a guy rejecting a girl because of her breasts, so just show yours to him and I'm sure he'll love them. You just need to be more confident about your body.
I would let him see them. I know you feel self-conscious but I highly doubt he would reject you over your breasts. He will probably be so happy to see them that he won't even care about what things you think are wrong with them. I have naturally big boobs too so I know how you feel :) But I have never been rejected for them :)
As a fellow girl with big boobs, I can gladly assure you many, many, many, many, many, one too many men LOVE big breasts and would prefer small, medium, big natural breasts over small, medium or big fake breasts. Natural is preferred by men, however there are exceptions and most are OK with fake breasts.
Guys who expect women with big breasts to have perky breasts that mirror those in p*rn are delusional and very inexperienced. If he wants to see them, let him. At that point, he isn't gonna be picky, he's curious and anything will satisfy his curiosity.
There's nothing wrong with being skinny with big breasts, just like there's nothing wrong with being skinny with small breasts, it is just how you are.
Hey girl, first off as for how guys think of natural big breast, each to their own, genuinely speaking. I have big boobs in comparison to my body frame as well. Thus, I definitely understand how you feel about it and where you are coming from. Don't worry about how guys think about you. It's not for the worse. What's more your lover will and should lover your breast as they are.
If you are having issues with people outside staring at your boobs because they are big, wear bras that doesn't enhance the boobs whilst giving good support. It never cease to fascinate me how the right bras work wonders for us people :)
Hope this helps. Let me know if you still have any issues you wanna talk about. Otherwise, be confident, stay confident and dress well :)
I am 38, have a natural g cups and am slim. I do work out so this probably accounts for some of it but my last two bf's both said they were perfect. I am also self conscious of them especially considering my age. Keep in mind my exes were 24 and 21 so they are used to much younger breasts.