I am very curious about all the guys and girls here who sound as though it is just a normal thing for the male partner to finish on her body. I do not recall any guy I have been with prefering to finish on me rather than in me. Some have asked as they got close if it was OK to finish inside me, but never if they could do it on me. Several by pure accident have finished on my butt, pubes or lips only because of slipping out of me and popping at the same time.
I let him bust pretty much wherever he wants. Usually it's inside me in some way or another, which is nice because that's what I prefer. But I wouldn't mind the occasional load to the t*ts or somewhere else on my body. I just wouldn't like it too much if that's all he ever wanted to do. I would feel like he wasn't turned on by or didn't appreciate other parts of my body, after a while. I like variety, and for everything to get a little bit of attention from time to time.
I have no problem with having my partner finish on my breasts, or anywhere else for that matter, after intercourse. However if it was ALWAYS an 'ejaculate on breasts' finish, I might start to wonder what was wrong with my vagina...
I know that I don't speak for most girls, just my personal opinion.
no, it's not okay you should assume she wants you to come inside her in a condom. if you're not sure, ask her she'll tell you, this is primarily a p*rn move and I for one only like it if I've asked for it. otherwise it's just plain rude to do this.
I agree with katiesmuff, I too prefer the guy to finish inside me. It just feels more "complete" & complete than having to pull out mid-coitus and aim and spray :) Having said that, a little variation is good too, like face (it's nice) or mouth. But that's just my own preference...
I don't know about most girls but I'm fine with it. Before I went on the pill, my ex and I used the pull out method for about 10 months. I pretty much got used to him shooting on my stomach and boobs. That being said, it's much more intimate to finish inside. It doesn't hurt to mix it up a little.