Guys, do you use sexual innuendos/jokes on girls you're not interested in?

[Anonymous]

I've been talking to this guy for a few weeks now and I've noticed that he throws little sexual innuendos/jokes in quite often. For example...We mainly chat over Fb, and one day he messaged me when I got out of the shower. So I told him that I had just gotten out of the shower and would be back in five. His response was "I'll come there." And after that the rest of the conversation all went downhill.. ;) Just yesterday I asked him what his job was and he told me he worked at a day camp. So then I said "Aww sounds like something I'd enjoy doing. Do you like it? What do you do?" And his response was "Just watch after kids and sh*t. Idk. You sound like something I'd enjoy doing." SO..if he slips stuff like this in during conversations does that most likely mean he just wants to have sex with me?Or do you think he acts like this with every girl? Is there still a chance that he honestly likes me but just doesn't know how to show it? Because he has admitted to being a very flirty guy...[we're both 19 btw]

[KarKingJack]

Lol, no. It doesn't mean anything, its within his personality. It probably suggests he's sexual by nature and obviously wouldn't be opposed to actually following through any of the stuff he's suggesting, but probably doesn't even think that much on it.

I do it too, not to that degree but I do. I don't know what the thinking really is. Like, there was a girl I was friends with during highschool, and we were in art class, and I was sititng in this seat opposing a cupboard filled with out folders. So, she came up to me, and said ''Jack, can I get behind you?', and without thinking I said 'Yeah, 'course', and moved in. Then it just twigged on what she said, and I grinned and turned round to her, and said 'Can I get behind you?'. We all laughed, hahaha. 'Cos it was just, spur of the moment, and it was funny. You have to be there for those kinds of jokes, so it doesn't sound funny, but that's not the idea, this is;

In my memory, her boyfriend was sitting at the same table as me.

[FrancoBattiato]

TLDR; All the time, and when you say girls I'm not interested in I'm classing that as girls I don't want a relationship with, I'd still have sex with them if not for my morals.

So yeah, his hormones are wantings you.

[Anonymous]

Yes, they do. They hit on chicks they think will take them up on sex. They only have to be mildly attractive, which is good enough to sleep with. Interested usually means romantically, which takes much more attraction from a guy than sexual availability does.

[lefthand]

Um... I would be interested in sleeping with most women once or twice. That means I am interested but it won't be a long term interest.