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Why do I keep getting Vagina Rubs?

Ok I haven't had a first kiss or a boob touch or anything but I've had 4 vagina rubs is hat normal? I feel like I'm going backwards at running to thrid base instead of first. Three different guys did this the first was at the movies he was the best, then second was my friend in a lecture and the third was a gy who asked me fro a kiss and I said no so he grabbed my vag. Is that normal why does this keep happening I have really big boobs why don't guys touch them? Or try to kiss me etc. etc. is there something about me that makes guys do this it doesn't seem normal?
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For the rrecord none of these guys were my boyfriend or anything the first was on a date and he put his hand on my knee and worked his way up and so did the second one don't get me wrong those two felt good and I'm not experianced and I've never been asked to reciprocate. The third was a little rough at first and I panicked and slapped his croch
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I'm 31 & still a virgin. Have been having some personal time with a guy I've been friends with for 10yrs. If he stays over we make out. I've had that sluttly guy friend that's randomly run up, given me a quick peck on the lips or liked salt off my neck while doing a shot, but never really made out with a guy. I've always been the best friend & being a virgin helped that so im still close with all my guy friends but something is different with this one guy friend.

    I'm so comfortable around him, so when he first kissed me I giggle bc I was shocked & that made him mad. 2nd time i giggle again & told him apparently I'm a giggler so get over it & I planted a kiss on him. Then next he stayed over we made out and his hands went everywhere.

    One point he put his hand over my pj bottoms, but up and down my vagina area. A few mins later he went under my pants, but while he was making his way there I stopped him. Since I'd never been with a guy I don't know what he expects hair wise down there. He didn't mind and we kept making out.

    My point is the make out is more intimate to me. We cuddle or act playful, stare into each other's eyes, and he'll be over me & sweep the hair away from my face like in the movies. Thinking of him doing that gets me butterfly's in my tummy and I get so happy. I'm extremely slowly working my way up to more, but that's the part I love and could care less about other stuff right now. Don't rob yourself of that, bc as a woman most do better with an emotional connection and that's what kissing is. That's why some people get more pissed if you someone else over actually sleeping with them, like on the show friends.

    If a guy if just touching you there he doesn't want you for anything but what it feels like down there, and he can go to anyone for that, and I would hope the guys you're around respect you more than that. From my own experience I can say kissing and the closeness from that is amazing so don't miss it for something that means less to you. Find a guy that makes you want to play ball in the right order. Lol

  • Sounds like you hang around with a bunch of animals to me. That's too insulting and a violation to do that. They're super horny and are obviously interested in one thing. You gotta find yourself a gentlman girl, and not allow that kind of attention unless you're the one putting his hand there in the first place. I know I would've racked the bastards, heh.

  • I think a lot of guys are curious about the feeling of a p**** and they are taking advantage of being able to touch yours. I think it is nicer to start at 1st base, but if you are in the 18-24 age group, then a lot of guys want more.

Most Helpful Guys

  • First, you should probably NOT go out on dates with guys you don't want to kiss. That will go a long way towards solving your little problem.

    And a long of young guys think your body works exactly like theirs does. A guy really only has one place where rubbing him feels fantastic: his penis. And if you were to rub it, that would be nearly all he could think about, and you'd have him wanting more more MORE! So he figures that you'll be the same way, and if he can rub you nice, you'll get so horny that you'll be begging him for it.

    Of course, it doesn't work quite that way for most girls, but these guys haven't figured that out yet.

    Anyway, fair or not, it is YOUR job to be the "base coach" and keep the guys rounding the bases in the right order and only taking the next base when YOU tell them to run. Got it?

    • Got it. But in all fairness the first was a blind date and Matt Damon was in the movie...lol

    • Hahaha... fair enough.

  • That is really bad if he rubs you and doesn't kiss you, that seems a bit too forward

    If your not okay with it tell him that you don't like him moving too fast and would like a kiss

    To the guy who grabbed your vag, what did he grab on to?

    You should have slapped him or shouted at him

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  • Are you giving some indication that a vag rub is what you want?

    And, if you want a guy to grab your boobs, why don't you *ask*? It's not like any guy would refuse.

  • Uh, but yet you let them do it...

  • You didn't mind on that strange in a initial stage huhh

  • I am sorry..I am confused now as to what you are asking...

  • Agree with Lupian...I am not a breast guy...so that is one thing...but why aren't they kissing u?

    That is a procedural breach!

    • I guess it's personal preference...but if I were u...ain't nobody puttin' their hand in my crotch without some serious kissing. Now..I am a married male...so...yeah...my wife could get away with that...

    • Maybe this is backward thinking but I'm not really into kissing the last guy asked for a kiss and I sid no. I never kissed a guy before so I wanted it to be special. But no one really reminices about their first rubdown

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