How many partners have you had?

Here's my question. Boys and girls, how old are you and how many sex partners have you had until now? And more importantly, what's the highest number of partners that you would be comfortable with knowing your partner was with? What is the number that would make you say:Wow, that's too much! BE HONEST, I really want to know.
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  • 21 years old, and 0 partners yet.

    As for the number of partners I'd be comfortable with, I honestly can't say for sure because I don't know how I'd feel either way if I was in that situation. It matters more to me the circumstances of her past partners, rather than the number. If she's only ever had flings and one nighters, then I probably couldn't trust that she'd be serious in the relationship. It's probably a generalization, but one that is true a good bit- a guy/girl that is into flings usually is for a reason. They like the sex and the fun, and that's the reason why they haven't had a relationship for long. But even saying that, there could always be a reason why she did what she did so it would really depend on the girl and the situation.

    If her partners were people she was comfortable with, then you can't really get mad at that.

  • I haven't kept track, but I think it's around 15. There was only one girl I didn't care about, and I regret that like crazy.

    In my partner, I don't really care about her number except for two situations:

    1. I never EVER EVER want to know her number, or about her previous experiences, or things she's done with other guys.

    2. I don't care how long it's been, but there's no way to prevent me from being jealous if we're around a guy she's been with, or if she continues to be close friends with an ex. I wouldn't be able to trust her.

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  • I'm 22 nd only had 1 but dnt think its bad to have more as a girl

    my boyfriend is 26 and his no is 12 which I think is perfectly fine for a guy his age, everyone's different.

    It's hard to say what normal number would make me go wow lol but I know a guy who's slept with over 500 women nd that's def unattractive to me.

    It hard for girls because their numbers are alwys suppose to be lower than the guys which is unfair in my case it is but that's because this is my first love nd I wait til then <3

  • I'm 28 and been with 3. Curren boyfriend is my third and he won't tell me his number but I know it's double digits, I think it's 15+, I know he's mostly had one night stands. I ask his number but not sure if I truly want to know!

  • I'm 17 and I'm on 1(current boyfriend). I would really just rather not know ( my boy has had 25 apparently, he is 21, and I hate it).

    • Ha, I hate that my boyfriend is a male slut too :)))

    • :) Good to know I'm not alone, I feel like I shouldn't care considering he picked me and hasn't really done wrong in the 9 months we've been together.

    • My hasn't done anything wrong in 2 years, but I still hate that he had so many girls :) I eaven see some of those girls from time to time...And they give him that look, you know the look that says:Remember me? :))Arghhhhhh...

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  • I'm 21 and have had one partner.

    The only time a guy's number would be unacceptable to me is if it was more than the number of serious, committed, long-term relationships he'd had.

    • Nice answer :))Love your number of partners :)))

    • Even if it's 1 time for sex and 0 for relationships?

    • How do you know that? And eaven if that were true, which I hardly think its true, what diference does it make? Though, a girl that has had only one guy, its very unlikely it was just for sex, you know what I mean!

  • 12 and I am 23.

  • Once you're in the triple digits, I don't expect you to know, or count, or care how many partners you've had. In fact, keeping a hard count would strike me as a little neurotic.

    • TRIPLE DIGITS?! For the love of God :)

  • This a good one to ask i,m fifty one years and only had 5 in my hole life I know that sound a little on the add side but i,m not one that just jump in to bed with some one that I just meet all the women I have been with have been long term and 2 ex wife,s if a woman has had more than 10 or more that is way to mine for me what do you think about that and i,m not going out that much this day i,m retired now and like it

  • age 23... 34 partners... for a girl I'm going to hook up with ? -couldn't care less.

    for something long term (if I ever lost my f***ing mind and wanted to get married, carry on my legacy via children?)

    no more than 2, maybe 3, looking at a girl that'd be prob age 21-24

    double standard? sure. but there are tons of things women can do that men can't haha

    • Wow, VERY REALISTIC!?!?!At that age you had 34 and she can onlu have 2 or 3?!

    • yes. again, men and women are different. and I know the value I have on the dating market, so I can make my demands what's your point?

  • Age: 53

    Partners: maybe 20

    for my mate? never cared about having a virgin...I haven't asked her..she was married once B 4..I am aware that she had some partners...I don't think that it was alot. I am probably not going to be interested in someone that has had 50 or 100 or more...exact number? don't have one...five sounds a lot better than 30 tho!

    • But how would you fell if that person that you're with tells you that in fact she has had 50?! Would that change what you think about her NOW? Just a teorethical question, offcourse.

    • LOL! you are pesky...lovable but pesky! hahaha tbh..not sure... that is a little outside of my comfort zone..it would be pretty obvious that she had not had that many serious relationships... so engaged in casual sex...might want to get to know me B 4 you mentioned that...might also be some fear that she might revert to her old ways...I guess I couldn't say until I was actually faced with the situation.

    • It was just hypotetical question.

  • i have had
    speed of light - 299792458m/s

  • have had zero partners ..Anything less than 10 is fine with me. Anything above 10 would make me very uncomfortable , most probably I wouldn't date that person.

  • I had 14guys and 4 girls

    • You're a pornstar.

  • I'm 21 and I've had zero. :( There is no number that would make me feel that it's too much. I would prefer 0 if possible since it would be more special, but it's not necessary.

  • Im almost 31 and my magic number is 5. I dont really care about the girls past so unless the number is crazy, like 100, im ok.

  • none

  • I'll be 40 in July. I've been with 5 men. My darling hubby (who is younger than I am) has been with more partners than I have. I think he said I'm his 8th.

    • My husband is my age and he's been with 12 girls before I married him. I've been with three, him included.

  • I'm 33 and have had sex with 30-50 I think. I haven't kept exact count.

    • You go girl! :))

    • Busy girl. Almost 3 average a year since age 16. What do you think was your record year?

    • I had ONE GUY before my boyfriend :((((NO record :(((((Sad face :(((

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  • I'm 21 and I've had 12 or 13

    My girlfriend prob 8 or so? Hookup buddy... I don't know as long as its good

  • I've slept with 8 guys.

  • Three

  • Im 29 and i had 54

    • Really, now?

    • Yes, most of them friends with benefits from Salonica if you know what i mean!

  • I have been with 0 and would only date a virgin

  • 0 so far

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