When is a girl not a virgin anymore?

What do you consider "no longer a virgin?" If he only penetrated you partially (and was fingering you a lot), could you still bleed from that alone afterward if you were a virgin? Or does it mean that he probably did get it all the way in? I know that the technical meaning is that a woman had a man inside her, even if it wasn't full penetration, and even if he didn't make her cherry pop or even bleed. But some people I know think virginity means cherry. If you had it in you a little bit but your cherry didn't pop, you're a "virgin", while other stricter people on the end of the scale may think that if you got fingered hard enough to break your cherry, you aren't really a virgin even if you never had intercourse?
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  • When she has had any degree of penis-penetrative intercourse. It is partly physical and partly philosophical. If you have chosen to let him point and then pass his weapon through the door, you have conceded virginity.

    A tampon, finger, hair brush handle or Monster Dildo do not take virginity.

  • A woman loses her virginity when a penis enters the lower half of her body. I think all these girls that take in the ass "to save it" are delusional.

    The hymen is irrelevant. It's all about whether you've had a c*ck inside you (usually in the vagina) or not, not how much damage it did to you.

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  • If she's had penetrative sex with a guy, then she's not a virgin.

    Hymen is incidental.

    If he's put his penis in your vagina, and you guys have had sex, then you're not a virgin.

  • I'm going with Quad on this. When penis passes p**** or asshole, the V-card has been dealt.