Do girls like giving HJs/BJs?

I think my girlfriend wants to give me a hj or bj but I have never had one and don't want one if I think she won't enjoy it and I won't be able to finish if I am thinking that and she might see me not finishing as I don't like her that much but I love her. HELP please girls!
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  • I know you asked for help from girls but I want to say something since you're not getting that much response. You said that you think your girlfriends WANTS to do those things to you and the only reason you're hesitating is because you think she might not enjoy it. Why would you think that when it's HER that wants to do that to you? I think you should be pretty pleased that she wants to do that to you, and not be worrying how it'll turn out because you do need to have your first time. some time. I say that she will enjoy it and so will you if you just let her do what she wants. I found the first time especially exciting and didn't last very long because just the thought of a girl doing that to me made me blow in less than 3 minutes and that wouldn't have made any difference how good or bad she was. lol! So put your worries behind you and just let happen what happens. The only thing important is that both of you want it. If you both do, you have a very pleasant surprise in store for you. Good luck!

    • Thanks man, that took a whole weight off my shoulders

    • You're so welcome, and I meant every word I said. The "last" thing you have to worry about is that she won't enjoy it because most all girls will really try to do their best. If by chance when she's doing "things" to you and you wish she'd do it a little different, just guide her with your hands or say something sweet to her making sure she knows what you're really enjoying and where you'd like her to make an adjustment. She'll love you for that. Let me know how this turns out.

    • I will be sure to update you ;) Hey if she doesn't can I still finger her or when she does can I finger her like if were lying/sitting together? I haven't before but was planning it anyway for next time we get really err "steamy" cos last time it went well but she was teasing me (I was allowed to open her bra but she kept it on while it was open but next time I will remove it fully lol I think she'll let me now

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  • Man, you will launch one in her face, trust me. If she takes it in the mouth, even better. If she swollows? She's gold.

    Dude, a lot of girls like doing it. Some don't, and if she doesn't, make her, then eat her stinky out to be even.

    Some girls are really bad at it though. Rare, but some are believe me.

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  • It is all a personal preference. Some girls love to do it, others do it just to please the guy they're with. I have been on the side where a guy didn't finish and I thought it was because I wasn't good at it. But that ended up not being the case. Anyways. just talk to her about it. Try it and if she doesn't like it then don't ask her to do it again. You have to be open about sexual things. If you can't laugh at yourself while messing around sexually, then you aren't comfortable with your partner.

    • She is suggesting it I never thought we were even that far but am glad I know now

    • :) You're welcome.. but realize you are also young.. take your time

    • You said some love it does that mean they get turned on by it?

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