Why do guys like to spank girls?

Why do guys like to spank? I've asked and they say they like it. But why do you like it? And let's say I've had sex with a guy a few times but this last time he spanked me. Does that mean something?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Most girls seem to like it so that's why I do it in general, especially while she's riding me. I'll do kind of a half assed spank to see if they smile or moan or anything and then I'll do it seriously. Some girls though either don't like it or think it's disrespectful. Hair-pulling is the same. Most girls love it when I grab a chunk of their hair and slowly and firmly pull while we make out and/or have sex. Some don't like it though. I guess I like to spank girls sometimes, but it's usually just because I like their reaction to it.

    • Because guys have to be the dominant ones. We have to be in charge of your ladies. We carry them in your arms and spank them as much as we like. Basically its your job to conquer them. And its their job to enjoy it.

  • Those of us with a terminal booty fetish and a sadistic streak in our sexual nature tend to like to combine the two by spanking that naughty wench. For me it's foreplay.

    Did you like it? Did it turn you on to submit, to be controlled a little? If not, tell him not to do it again. The he has to decide if he needs to spank you worse than he needs to be with you. Either way, you'll know where you stand.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I like a little spanking once in a while. Not too hard, but enough to sting my ass a bit. I think it is a dominance/submissive thing. I tend to be very submissive during sexual situations and most men love to feel dominant. A good spanking for their girl pumps up their dominance and also their libido. We are usually over their knee bare assed or at the very least in panties. When he is done and rubs my glowing red bottom, then my p***y is very wet and very ready. And we all know what happens next. Mmmmmm!

  • i've never been spanked. it's not something that happens everywhere in the world.

  • Good question...I'd like to know as I've never been spanked...ever. Ever.

    • Ever?

    • Ever-ever.

    • Like not ever?

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  • I like it :)

  • Well, what else can you do with a full round bubble butt? Girls have a full sexy butt and I guess giving it a spank is something natural and inbuilt I guess. My girlfriend also gives me smack quite often.

  • because we can that's the best answer lol

  • probably so they can feel control in a sick twisted way

    • LOL! I don't do that...only if they're mouthy! heh heh

    • I am teasing btw..if I tried that...my wife would break the nitestand lamp over my head...

    • lmao taster now that's funny

  • I don't. But I do enjoy looking and touching a nice ass on a girl.

    For your situation he was just being aggressive/dominant, some girls enjoy being spanked. Maybe a previous partner liked it so he's trying it on you.

  • good sh*t. I personally love it.

  • I'll explain it to you, but not in a public forum. I tried to message you, but apparently you have a block on. Message me if you want more details.

  • It plays into the dominant and submissive thing and it turns the girl on. It's also a bit kinky.

  • Because you deserve it! XD

  • i like it

  • I do it to watch her butt jiggle.

  • It means you probably have a very nice ass.

    As for the why, let's just say that red is my favorite color :-)

  • oh my god I LOVE IT.

  • They just like seeing our ass shake. Guys are visual creatures.

    • Heh, heh. A very astute observation to be sure. It feels good too, well at least on this end it does :-)