I've met quite a lot of girls who prefer anal sex over vaginal, and I'm wondering why's that, I mean I know it causes orgasm and stuff, but I find it confusing that they like it more than vaginal instead of liking both on the same level, any answers?
I never used to until I met the guy I'm with now. With him, it just feels right. And he absolutely loves it. My sex life has become the most amazing it has ever been. The first time I had an anal squirting orgasm, it caught both of us off guard. We didn't even know it was possible without vaginal/clitoral stimulation. It most definitely is though. It feels amazing. There is something about that loss of control in a way you are totally not used to. Needless to say, with every little deviant thing we do... we become even more adventurous and I love it! :) I have also just discovered the absolute orgasmic joy of going down on my guy before bending him over and eating out his asshole. Oh my god, I seriously recommend this. :)
Having anal sex makes it a lot more pleasurable for us. Girls only have sensors in the top half of her vagina. The further in you go, the less she is going to feel. Having anal sex is completely different. Girls can feel the very slightest movement inside her no matter how deep the guy goes.
girls can have very psycological ties to their vag's. If they had a bad experience they can shy away from typical sex because of its "intimacy" factor. They are litterally letting a guy inside them. The anus however is associated with garbage and dirtiniess. It's much easier to seperate yourself from something you consider to be a source of waste.
Chances are these girls turned to anal to satisfy their need for sexual exploration/satisfying their mate without really letting them in. I'm going to assume its a defensice mechanism on their part, that allows them to seperate their emotions from the physical act of satisfying their partners. (though I'm sure they would deny it claming regular sex "hurts" or "doesn't feel good" or other variations of "i'm not comfortable with it". which further reinforces this concept.)
In most cases I would assume they were either abused sexually or raped in their history. It would probably be an up hill battle to get them to open back up to it because it would mean facing their issue.
These are the type of girls that enjoy sex the most because they are daring, and of course they are the hardest to find. The majority of girls like this live by high standards, making them all the worthwhile. Perverted girls with high standards is how I would describe them, and finding even one of them is like winning the lottery
My advice for dudes: Know what you're doing, stay aware and be educated. If you don't know what you're doing, you'll look stupid its that simple
To the dude that posted this article, yo bro you're one of the luckiest dudes alive, and I wish I were you because of that