Why do some girls prefer anal over vaginal?

[Anonymous]

I've met quite a lot of girls who prefer anal sex over vaginal, and I'm wondering why's that, I mean I know it causes orgasm and stuff, but I find it confusing that they like it more than vaginal instead of liking both on the same level, any answers?

[ThoroughFred]

girls can have very psycological ties to their vag's. If they had a bad experience they can shy away from typical sex because of its "intimacy" factor. They are litterally letting a guy inside them. The anus however is associated with garbage and dirtiniess. It's much easier to seperate yourself from something you consider to be a source of waste.

Chances are these girls turned to anal to satisfy their need for sexual exploration/satisfying their mate without really letting them in. I'm going to assume its a defensice mechanism on their part, that allows them to seperate their emotions from the physical act of satisfying their partners. (though I'm sure they would deny it claming regular sex "hurts" or "doesn't feel good" or other variations of "i'm not comfortable with it". which further reinforces this concept.)

In most cases I would assume they were either abused sexually or raped in their history. It would probably be an up hill battle to get them to open back up to it because it would mean facing their issue.

[southerngurl1124]

I agree with you but wouldn't you think that even if there were raped or abused that they still wouldn't want to have anal sex? It's pretty much the same thing, except in a different hole.

[ThoroughFred]

not if they were raped vaginally and emotionally scarred from it. vaginal sex will remind them of the experience where as anal is a very different and therefore seperate act. Generally to be happy female psychology involves sharing intamacy with a lover and most girls know a guy will not accept them if they refuse sex all together. Anal would be the most logical compromise.

[southerngurl1124]

I personally would think they if they were raped, they would be scarred from sex, period. Girls should not be trying to please guys by having sex with them. So what if she refuses it all together? At that point, who needs a guy?

[ThoroughFred]

LOL you are in the minority.

[Asker]

Ehh, no wonder most guys are not into these anal-close minded girls, including me, my girlfriend is right next to me and she's raving on how she likes to take it up the booty, Anal has it's secrets, and it's like the first time a woman does anal she'll just magically love it, it takes experience and a few times till they finally prefer it over any kind of sex, So take it easy, use lube if it hurted you, or just take the top position and keep moving your butt up and down, that should make it easy

[Asker]

Correction : it's like the first time a woman does anal she'll just magically love it*

[Asker]

Pfft, forgot to add "Not", so yeah I apologize for the typo

[ThoroughFred]

Most girls hate anal at first, then learn to love it for a while, but most of them eventually get sick of it when it starts to cause hemorhoids and other "less exciting" side effects. Its novel and fun at first, but eventually like all sexual novelty it does turn into just another thing to spice up the mix. I have to admit as a guy, it's the same for me. before it was like the lost arc. First few times it was new and amazing. After a few viking ass reamings it was been there done that.

[Asker]

What do yo mean "it's the same for me"? I find that a bit, em well, confusing and suspicious lol, Also any kind of sex gets boring after a few times, and vaginal is one of the most to get sick of, vaginal is a bit oldschool now, and I have to disagree with you on a point, me and my ex-'s had anal more than ten times, and they keep asking for it frequently, it's only natural bro, anal for women = extreme pleasure, anyone would see that, but it's not for every girl, some girls arejust closeminded.

[ThoroughFred]

Same for me as in I used to enjoy anal sex with girl a lot, but now I'm kind of over it. I usually reserve it for wild nights when I'm craving something extra/out of the ordinary. It's often messy and sometimes a killjoy, but when you're drunkish or just don't care about intimacy I think its great fun. I'm definately over pressuring every girl I'm with about it though. I usually wait until it's requested or just hint at it if I'm craving. I never get upset when I get a "no."

[ThoroughFred]

As for Vaginal getting boring... All I can say is that you haven't had an exceptional lover then. Vaginal sex is only boring when the guy isn't skilled. Otherwise you are too busy cumming to ever get bored. From my experiences boredom with conventional sex has never been an issue from any girl I've ever been with. The concept just seems ridiculous to me. That's why it's there. If it wasn't meant to feel amazing, it wouldn't be lined with nerves and erogenous zones.

[Asker]

Well my good sir, girls never ask for sex themselves, like they never ask for ANY kind of sex, you just have to go for it yourself, get her turned on, then it doesn't matter what kind of sex you'll have, oral/vaginal/anal/ even boobal LOL

[ThoroughFred]

LMAO... boobal... classic. But it isn't true girls don't ask for sex. I get asked all the time. And occasionally even for anal. When a girl knows you can deliver satisfaction for their craving, they can be very direct.

[Anonymous]

These are the type of girls that enjoy sex the most because they are daring, and of course they are the hardest to find. The majority of girls like this live by high standards, making them all the worthwhile. Perverted girls with high standards is how I would describe them, and finding even one of them is like winning the lottery

My advice for dudes: Know what you're doing, stay aware and be educated. If you don't know what you're doing, you'll look stupid its that simple

To the dude that posted this article, yo bro you're one of the luckiest dudes alive, and I wish I were you because of that

[AprilMulder]

I never used to until I met the guy I'm with now. With him, it just feels right. And he absolutely loves it. My sex life has become the most amazing it has ever been. The first time I had an anal squirting orgasm, it caught both of us off guard. We didn't even know it was possible without vaginal/clitoral stimulation. It most definitely is though. It feels amazing. There is something about that loss of control in a way you are totally not used to. Needless to say, with every little deviant thing we do... we become even more adventurous and I love it! :) I have also just discovered the absolute orgasmic joy of going down on my guy before bending him over and eating out his asshole. Oh my god, I seriously recommend this. :)

[Anonymous]

Having anal sex makes it a lot more pleasurable for us. Girls only have sensors in the top half of her vagina. The further in you go, the less she is going to feel. Having anal sex is completely different. Girls can feel the very slightest movement inside her no matter how deep the guy goes.

[sportycrazy]

mabye it's true , but I feel it's wrong , totally wrong, and what I'm sure of is that every hole has it's part in life :-)

[Opinion Owner]

I'm just saying what I know.

[ThoroughFred]

total BS. Girls can come from 2 internal places inside the vagina. g-spot, and deep tissue near the cervix. Though most women either are not comfortable enough to, or don't have a skilled enough lover and can only come clitorally. The anus however has tons of nerves that can easily trigger orgasm, however it is NOT more easy to come from than proper vaginal techniques.

[amameninas]

The operent word: Movement. That's what we often feel.

[Opinion Owner]

Okay, first off, you're not a women, you don't know what it feels like so you wouldn't know if you can feel it deep inside. Second off, the g spot can be hard to find and even then, that isn't very deep inside.

[matahari]

G spot isn't hard to find at all. And it's not 'the further in you go, the less you feel'. It depends on the movement. Anal isn't nice at all..

[Asker]

@matahari Lol you do realize that the best orgasm a woman can get is from anal, right? oh and they squirt Much easier with anal, because there is a wall that connects the anus to the vagina, you can reach the Gspot easier there, which means extreme pleasure, I know it's all confusing and stuff but you'll understand once you try anal with someone you love and you're comfortable with.

[matahari]

Who told you this bulsh*t? They probably had a good laugh about it.

[Asker]

This ain't no bullsh*t little girl, maybe your dude horse-f***ed your ass that's why you think it's not nice at all, And yea it is proven fact that a woman's best orgasm can be from anal, too obvious, yet you're too ignorant to realize it, oh well, once you grow up and actually mature you'll maybe realize this obvious stuff, actually, that's a BIG MAYBE since you're a troll.

[firelilly]

Besides the pleasure, you can't get pregnant.

[Asker]

lol makes sense ;p

[collezione]

that is true :)

[Alexz0]

Better orgasms and less pregnancy risk.

[Georgi2008]

I had a stripper proposition me once. She said her husband didn't mind as long as I gave her a gift. But she offered anal because she didn't want to get pregnant again.

[joeyknows]

Well anal seems more risky and risk can yurn a lot of people on aswell as my self, knowing your doing somthing that some consider wrong makes it so much better ;)

[Anonymous]

Never met one who did.

[Asker]

You probably didn't meet real women then.