He never wants to look into my face when he comes...why?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend hates missionary position because it's "boring", which I understand, but I've noticed that whenever he's close to having an orgasm, he wants to have sex in a position where I can't see his face. he always has the lights off, and he prefers reverse cowgirl, or doggy style or whatever. I like these positions, it's fine.except for the fact that I never see his face when he comes. He usually kisses me right after, which is nice, but I don't know why he doesn't want me to see him. Do you think he likes to pretend I'm someone else? Maybe his O-face is embarrassing? I tease him about this bizarre behavior but I haven't gotten an answer out of him.

[Anonymous]

Guys tend to make some pretty funny faces when they orgasm. If he has ever been teased by a woman about a face he makes, he is probably self conscious about it. It is something that he is only going to get over after he gets some positive reassurance. My suggestion is that you climb on him some day and just ride him really hard. If he tries to roll you off of him, don't let him. Get him used to the idea of you seeing him cum. Once he realizes that you aren't going to tease him or make fun of him.he should get more comfortable with the idea.

Good luck.

[l-hedoniste]

Maybe it's his fantasy. Maybe it's strange. Maybe he's not used to an orgasm with someone else in the room.

What we do know is that he's self-conscious about it, so I would be careful how (or WHETHER) I approached the issue.

[Asker]

I'm probably not going to approach it. I know that he hasn't had sober sex before me in about a year or something (last time he had sober sex, he said, was about a year and a half ago). so maybe he isn't comfortable. but I can't live thinking that he's imagining I'm someone else!

[l-hedoniste]

Yes, you can. On this one, what you don't know, won't hurt you.

[23momof3]

I was like this for a long time I just don't like to be watched, it wasn't that I was thinking my b.f was someone other then himself it was that I didn't know what my face looked like and I want to enjoy the big o without thinking what do I look like so I wouldn't worry, if you want you may say you love him and you wouldn't mind seeing his funny o face it shows you did good. Put a spin on it. Good luck

[Asker]

He jokes about me not seeing his o-face, and that's fine. I just want to make sure he's not fantasizing. he also says he likes the angle better with those positions and they feel good, which they do.

[23momof3]

I wouldn't worry its not that he's thinking you someone your not.....

[skootz]

lmfao yea I think guys are deff sensitive about there O-face because its HILLARIOUS LOOKING. they scrunch up their faces and it kinda looks like there about to cry lol. I would say that's it.

if your that upset about it thought I would confront him about it.

[Atomizer]

my guess:

he's imagining you're someone else and watches waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay too much porn.

[wally]

tell him that for once you wanna see his face when he comes .

[Anonymous]

maybe he's fantasizing about someone else.