Is it weird that grinding sometimes feels better than intercourse?

[Anonymous]

When me and my boyfriend are starting to hook up, he'll sometimes grind against me. He does it while we both have our pants on still, but I think it feels so amazing. When we have sex I usually don't orgasm, but when he grinds up against me I almost always do. I love having sex with him, but it's frustrating when he comes and I don't, so I sometimes try to get him to grind against me so I can come too. Is it weird that I'm like this? Is there anyone else that feels the same?

[dakadan]

I don't think it is weird at all. It, actually, makes complete sense. While grinding he is pushing up against your clitoris. When you are having intercourse the only thing that might push up against your clitoris is the his pubic mound when he pushes all the way in you. I'm sure you enjoy both, but it does make complete sense and sounds normal to me.

[matt4902]

no nothings wrong with dry humping you probably don't get as much sensation from sex, which makes a lot of sense. actually it is also safer and you both can reach orgasm so more or less it could be considered perfect sex, that is probably an exagerationfor other parties and situations but for yours true.

[LishaJones]

I don't know if everyone feels this way but you know you could during sex.play with yourself at the top of your vagina and at the clitoras area. That why you like grinding .it triggers those areas and many girls can orgasm. If you don't feel comfortable playing with yourself.then ask your man to do it.or guide his hand to those areas.

[Eileen]

ugghh! I feel the same way! accept that mines the other way around. he gives me an orgasm first and he usually takes FOREVER! and it's painful for me almost 97% of the time, so I don't enjoy it.

[l-hedoniste]

I don't get it, but who cares? You like it, it's fun--go with it.

[liamkarl]

All of my previous gf's have been in a similar situation, I've got used to grinding with my girls a lot so I do it by habit now without even really thinking about it and it seems to drive them wild :P