My new guy has a rather large penis, kind of scared?

Hi. I have been dating a nice guy lately and we have come to the step to have sex. As we were kissing each other he got hard and so I unzipped his pants and was shocked when I saw his penis, my jaw literally dropping on the floor. It is really massive and by far the biggest one I have seen in person. I asked him jokingly if I could measure him and he just laughed and said "Sure, go ahead". He seemed to be quite confident. So I really measured him and he is a bit over 7'' in length and a bit over 5'' girth. To be perfectly honest I was really proud that I got a man with such a penis because my female friends are always talking about big penises and how they adore them. But I couldn't bring myself to have sex with him because I was a bit intimidated. So my question: Is sex better with a bigger penis or will it just hurt?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Hmm...

    Considering the fact that the primary erogenous zones (clitoris, G-Spot, etc.) are all located less than 3 inches deep, the size will not make much physical difference, but it will make a significant psychological difference. The mind is where orgasm begins, and just the thought of a giant penis going in and out (compared to a tiny one) is a turn-on for most women, right?

    About the pain issue, well, the vagina is one of the most elasic parts of the body. Don't forget that your body was made so that you can even push a baby out, so an above-average penis should be no problem. Plus, when you are aroused, the blood that fills into the vaginal tissue causes you to "expand" outwards (female equivalent of an erection), so you will most probably be fine.

  • The only way to know for sure is to try it. If you're big enough for it then you'll be fine; otherwise, you may not like it. Like the Kama Sutra says, Pair the men with large penises with the women who have large vaginas and you'll have a more satisfying relationship.

Most Helpful Girls

  • It is big for sure, but there are lots of them bigger. The good news is that special spot where he will be putting it in you is made to expand very easily and it will fit without much trouble. If you are turned on and wet when he goes to enter you it will slide in like a hot knife through butter.

    And absolutely the big ones feel really good. Start with doggie position which has you most easily opened up and a good straight shot for him to enter you.

  • haha I think you juss described every man's dream reaction to his penis lol first time you sleep with someone you tend to have to make some adjustments lol as you get used to each others bodies. just take it slow when he enters nd dnt tense up it should be fine--at least its not nine inches :p

    • I couldn't even imagine nine inches but ouch. Even seven is quite big for me.

  • You'll be fine. Might take a bit of getting used to, but don't worry. Just tell him to take it slow.

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  • lmao he is slightly above average not huge...u haven't seen many penises have u

  • I do hope people answer better on this... Or I'm going to have a bad sex life.

  • his girth shouldn't be a problem. I had a guy that was 6 around, now that hurt lol

    • 6 around? Really? Wow haha

  • It's 7 inches that's not huge.. You will be fine

    • It is unless you are a size queen

    • Size queen? No I have just had bigger.. Your judging and you font know the first thing about me..

    • Ok, would you say sex with bigger ones is better?

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  • just have him start out slow. You'll get used to him down there :)

  • Don't worry about it 5" around is pretty standard, and the depth can be easily controlled

  • it is not so big

  • Well from what I know, generally the sex is better after awhile. However, it's mostly the girth that does it because the extra stretch feels good from what I hear, unless it's stretched too much of course. You should be fine in that area though because 5" girth is right about average, not big

  • Average size is about 5.8 inches long or so and 4.9 inches around. You're right, 7 inches is big and 5 inch girth is about average. Anything above 7 though is considered big. Only about 5% of guys are 7+ inches

  • You really think 7" is massive? I've had women tell me I'm big but none have ever said huge or massive & I'm 7.5' & thought that was about average or maybe just a tad more. And all these years I thought they were saying big just to make me feel good.

  • 7 inch isn't like holy sh*t massive I think above 8inch is starting to get massive. 6-7 inch is like upper end of average. I'm not a girl so I wouldn't know but from what I heard it depends on the girl but if you overcome this you will both have a stronger bond so I've heard.

  • It'll prob hurt the first few times or even handful of times. Grin and bear it and it'll be OK after a while.