I think this guy is sexually excited (basically sexually attracted to you), and he knows that you dn't want to have sex with him (he also wouldn't dare to cheat on his fiancee) so he finds an "alternate", but VERY inappropriate way of sexually satisfying himself.
This is not only inappropriate and disturbing, but might get more dangerous if he finds that he's still not "sexually satisfied" with all of this, and plans on going even further...
I think you should talk to him, and be BRUTALLY HONEST about what you think and feel. If you can make him realize that this is severely inappropriaate, and make him feel emabrassed about the whole thing, he might actually stop.
(By the way, why did you post the question again? Everyone was already answering the other one.)0 0 0 0He is sexually attracted to you, but he knows that he shouldn't cheat on his fiancee (besides you would never accept that as well), so he finds an "alternate" way of sexually satisfying himself.
I think that must be both disturbing and creepy for you. I would advise talking to him about this, and being BRUTALLY HONEST. If you can actually make him realize that what he's doing is severely inappropriate, and get him to feel embarassed about the whole thing, he might stop.0 0 0 0
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I would get awaaaaay from him. He is a crappy friend, and an even crappier fiance to this girl. He has taken things so far out of line that he is completely disrespecting you and his fiance. You shouldn't let a guy talk to you like this, especially a friend. How would you feel if when you have a fiance they talked to another girl like this? It would probably hurt you a lot. Have you told his fiance that he does this? I would never want to marry a man that is this sexual with another girl. I think you would be doing her a favor by telling her, and if you lose his friendship I really don't think it's a big loss since he is incredibly disrespectful to women.
1 0 0 0He wants to sleep with you but won't just say it. I'm in the same situation with my guy friend. I'm hoping it happens, tho. He's telling you the stuff about him and the gf to make you think about him as a sex object and he's hoping you get jealous and wish you were sleeping with him. He's touching you because he wants you. It excites him to make you squirm because he's thinking about you squirming when he's making you come. He should be smarter about hanging out with you and the fiancée. It's going to get even more awkward.
0 0 0 0Guys with girlfriends like to hit on other girls because its a confident booster, they have a girl but like to see what other girls think of them, knowing they can go home and sleep with their girl. A guy told me this, I know its depressing. The only thing I would be concerned about is MANkind, I always wonder what my boyfriend acts like around other girls when I'm not there, it makes me turn in my sleep.
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0 3I don't think it's okay or "normal." If you had a boyfriend, would you be okay with him saying/doing these things with a girl friend of his?
He sounds like a horndog with no self-control.0 0 0 0i want to say it's okay because I've made sexual jokes to my female friends. like I would make jokes about being married and sleeping together... nothing as crude as the chapstick comment but I get it.
HOWEVER, he's getting married. I did it when I was single and fooling around on the weekends. If it makes you uncomfortable you should tell him to stop or at least tone it down0 0 0 0nahh its not normal. sounds like he's mentally ill or he is not getting any p**** from his fiance so he is super desparate. and he sees you as an easy way to get laid because he's really comfortable with you. but tell him to f*** off and see what his reaction would be
1 0 0 0he has sex with his girlfriend a lot. he's not desperate and I do tell him to f*** off and stop being creepy but idk. he thinks its funny or he gets some satisfaction out of it or something. idk
well then sit him down and be like ey dude we need to talk and tell him everything you think about him and every time he tries to make a joke, stop him
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