Depends on what kind of pants he has on. If they are jeans they will probably be too tight. so all you can do is rub as much of the length as you can. I would go slow unless your trying to make him cum. then start slow and get faster.
if he has looser pants like dockers then try and bunch up the pants to where you can actually grab his cock in your hand.. or almost. then again, slide up and down as much as you can
If he has sweats on then you should be able to reach down inside of them and just grab his dick in your hand and fondle his balls gently.
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in any case, with pants on you really can't get to the balls so don't try. They feel great when fondled gently and directly with the hand. Can't feel anything through pants.
do not press on the balls. it can hurt very badly very quickly. but just a light rubbing motion, start with the pressure you would use to tickle your arm. As far as the whole package that is kinda less exact. I would prefer more pressure and slow movement so as not to chaffe.. but really it just depends. but you will probably leave him with blueballs and that sucks.
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If you get to the point where he has an erection and you can clearly feel it, then basically pet it like you'd pet a cat, going from the base to the tip. Soft, stroking motions... not poke-and-jab.
Oh, and if you're not willing to go any further than doing stuff with clothes on, be ready for him to get pissed at you for it.
I like a light touch starting from my taint (underneath the guys balls) up on my sac, and in a circular motion to the tip, and then start over again... A very light touch is amazing...
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I prefer a light touch personally...but it could vary from guy to guy. You're better of just asking whoever is on the recieving end.
My girlfriend and I do this a lot, like with our pants still on and she'll be running my d*** and my balls. It feels really really great! Up and down motion works for me that feels good. And same for my penis up and down putting pressure on it
hjs are great...my balls do not exist...
The girl can rub the penis in any motion but slowly.. Dont touch the balls bcoz it really hurts..
Start with the penis rub up & down the shaft. Use fingers to size up penis & gently rub balls.
I would not let a girl do that
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