Seems like I'm a pervert by girls standards, because I like to joke and check girls out (yes that means face, breasts and ass). To me a "pervert" is someone who is constantly consumed or obsessed by sexual related things, stalks people or purposely does inappropriate and unsuitable things in front of others.
I'm gonna let you in on a little secret...we're all perverts lol. No joke. You just need to make sure that you find the good kind of pervert and not the bad kind. And just because a guy hides it well doesn't make him a good one. Usually the ones that hide it well are hiding it for a reason. So although the ones that are open about it (aka most teenage boys) can come off as annoying or out of line, at least you know that they are semi-normal. Otherwise who knows, the ones hiding it could be into some sick sh*t.
pervert is a derrogative label with an ambiguos meaning. People define it differently even for different situations, Like slut or whore. I myself avoid it at all costs, avoiding playing with peoples kids, avoid calling more than once, don't mention half the stuff in my head, but eventually you realize various people have various thoughts on the matter and you can't please everyone. It's led to an unfortunate FTW philosophy, f*** the world and I want to fix the world
once at a party, I was drunk and threw up, and my friend's friend (who I knew and talked to a little) stayed with me, got me water and held my hair and said it was okkkk. it really made me feel better and when I wanted to lay down and sleep he stayed next to me (which was nice, because it was freakin cold)
but as I was kinda resting, he starts slowly running his hands up and down my sides, and he'd go lower and lower and run his hands over my butt, and kiss my shoulder.
i thought that was grossly pervy and sick. he's actually known for getting with 16 year olds (hes 21)
and I'm no slut. that was like my 3rd time being drunk in my life I'm 18 and shy and a virgin, I was just having fun, he didn't need to be so grossly GOOD and gaining my trust then turning pervy
well to me a pervert is touchy and hollers and random girls.
not necessary making that's what she said jokes, cause we all do that. and most of us get it. that don't make us all perverts. we just have weird sense of humor. but if he talks about asses and t*ts, saying is so fine, then he's a perv.
i don't consider checking girls out perverted too, but if you fantisize about doing naugthry stuff to them then that's a no no. we all check out girls, it just happens. gee I even try to peek under dresses. but I don't consider myself a perv. I just think she's really really pretty lol
and my guy friend once told me that its better when guy talk about perverted things and is open about than guys who keep it to themselves. cause youd never know what they thinking or what they might do.
1. When he purposely drops his pencil in school and you're trying to be nice so you bend down to pick it up and he's staring at your boobs and cleavage the whole time. (My guy friend used to do that to girls all the time in class but I think he grew out of it)
2. He's always making sexual comments, jokes (that's what she said), and inappropriate things.