Would you be intimidated by toys?

[Katelyn1214]

My Fiance and I are very sexual and always looking to trying new things. One thing we do in particular is I sometimes make him watch me when I use my dildo or vibrator...and he even use it on me sometimes. The thing is I know some guys would be intimidated by the use of toys. My Fiance likes that I use toys and I have told him that whenever he can't come see me for long periods of time, it is a healthy way for me to still be satisfied sexually...and not be tempted to cheat. My Questions for now are: Would you be intimidated if your partner used toys? Do You women who use them intimidating? ((Really a different view then the first question)) Would you actually buy you significant other a sex toy in order to spice up your love life? Would you (females now) let your man use your toy on you? Would you (males now) use your girls sex toy on her? (Questions may be added at a later time) To aviod answering multiple times, please just comment under your first answer. Please No Bashing! This is purely just to gain insight on how others view the topic.

[l-hedoniste]

"Would you be intimidated if your partner used toys?" I buy toys for partners, so no.

"Do You women who use them intimidating?" No.

"Would you actually buy you significant other a sex toy in order to spice up your love life?" Have bought, many times, for many partners.

"Would you use your girls sex toy on her?" Have used, many times, with many partners.

Recall: On average, 3 of 4 women won't come from vaginal intercourse alone, why 3 of 4 will come with a vibrator. It's a no-brainer, far as I'm concerned.

[scotti68]

I think its a turn on. I actually bought my fiance her first vibrator and she was really nervous about it at first but she loves it. I don't really mind if its bigger than me either because most of the time she wants me instead. Its just something to spice things up and get us both going. Anytime I see her get turned on it turns me on so I don't mind at all.

[BroskiJayAre]

No not at all

No

Maybe if they asked

Yes

[Carping]

No, I am not intimidated when my SO uses toys. As a matter of fact, I actually enjoy it when she does, especialy like now when I am away on bussiness. Most of the times I am the one that puls out the toy box LOL

[NerdInDenial]

Of course, there's going to be some intimidation because the penis cannot vibrate and stimulate the clitoris and vagina at the simultaneously. However, sex is about pleasing your partner and yourself. Depending on the the person, it is an intimate act. I would buy one for my partner because it's going to get her off. I like seeing my women feeling satisfied. I'd help her if she asked me to.

[Katelyn1214]

i see your point there may be some intimidation. But I have for a fact pointed out to my Fiance that I prefer the reall thing to any toy. As for the clitoris stimulation, I never really have gotten off from that. It frankly doesn't do anything for me.

[watuneed]

NOT AT ALL... I nfact I have bought partners toys in the past, rabbits, bullets, dildos... to use with me, for me to use on them or when we are apart... they are great fun and no one should be intimidated. Its not like women are running off with their vibrators and abandoning men...

[SnackG]

No.

No.

Probably not.

I don't think so. What kind of toy would be used on a guy?

[Katelyn1214]

cock ring...vibrating cockring

[SnackG]

Oh. Then sure I guess. I don't see myself as a toy in bed kind of person. So I doubt I'd do it unless it was her idea.

[Anonymous]

I would love this!!! But my SO doesn’t masturbate or use toys.

[Anonymous]

Would you be intimidated if your partner used toys? Depends on the size, if it was bigger than me I wouldn't be happy at all.

Do you find women who use them intimidating? No, plenty of women use them. Its a good replacement when we're not around.

Would you actually buy you significant other a sex toy in order to spice up your love life? Sure, I'm open to the idea of it.

Would you use your girls sex toy on her? Yes, but I have my own tool? why would she need something else.