Sexual Health
+1 y

I hate my boobs I can't stand it, so I won't let my boyfriend see them, advice?

I hate my boobs with a passion. I'm going to be 19 soon and I'm still a 32A. I have a boyfriend who says he loves my boobs and that they are perfect and fit my body cause I'm tiny, but I hate them. I'm 5'1 and a size 0 I'm not that tiny, and I know plenty of girls who are skinnier with bigger boobs. All of them are more attractive than I am. My boyfriend and I were best friends before we dated and he once had said that Scarlett Johansen had perfect boobs, and that bothers me so much. When I asked him how both of us could have perfect boobs he gave me some bs answer and said that she has perfect ones for hollywood. I want bigger boobs, but I don't want implants because I don't wanna be fake. I know someone will probably say I should accept my chest and love myself, but I cannot possibly accept these. My boobs look like a 12 year old I don't look attractive at all. We're both going to college next year, and I'm afraid he'll meet a more attractive girl with bigger boobs and dump me for her. I don't want him to see me in a bathing suit or naked and anymore because of my boobs. He said he'll honor my decision, but that he thinks I'm being over-the-top. I disagree. Am I wrong for hiding myself from him?
1 1

Most Helpful Girls

  • Well I like girls with bigger boobs but small boobs can be sexy too. Sometimes...

    Regardless if you're a size 0 big boobs would look weird on you. I have big ones but I'm curvy so I'm balanced out. Be happy with your body there's no reason to be down about your chest. Its just one part of you damn. Don't stress it and get some f***ing self esteem. Its one thing for me to say a girl looks like a 12 year old boy but you shouldn't say that about yourself. Lol there's nothing wrong with your chest girl. Calm down.

    I never get insecure chicks. Is your boyfriend not supposed to find other women attractive and go blind because you're insecure? Granted your boyfriend should probably have enough common sense to know that a comment like that is insensitive but we have to exercise confidence and being comfortable with another woman's beauty without becoming jealous in times when our men are dumb as sh*t. Its the way of the world.

    If you're not comfortable fine but your insecurity is encroaching on your relationship. You're wanting big boobs so a guy won't leave you? That's not healthy.

  • Alright girl, let me tell you something, for most boys, there are no such thing as bad boobs. Boobs are boobs. As a fellow small-breasted girl, my boyfriend loves them, but I still feel self consious about them now and again, but for the most part I'm happy with them.
    For you, I don't know what might be best. For some people it's good for other people to let them know that their body is good before they'll accept it easily, but for others, it might be easier to take their time loving themselves before showing their partner. I think it depends on the way you trust. Either way is fine as long as it works for you.
    It's okay if your boobs are small, they're still beautiful. It's not how big they are that's found erotic, it's the fact that they're an intimate and possibly sensitive part of you. So it's okay. Take your time to try to feel comfortable with yourself, but don't try to force it.

  • I'm 19 also and I barely fill an A cup. I'm also a 32A and I feel the exact same as you. I'm so self conscious about them. I had a guy say he doesn't care about my size, he's more of an ass guy ha ha. I don't want guys to see me without a bra on either. I guess we just gotta push our insecurities aside, but I totally understand what you're saying. I would love bigger boobs, but I'm also hesitant about implants. That's why I wear a push-up bra, and even with that on I fall behind the push up part because I'm so small so I gotta keep pulling my breasts up.

    • I'm so glad some one is in the same boat.

Most Helpful Guys

  • You are a girl with small boobs. Is that a problem with your man? No. He says he likes them. Believe him. You don't want implants (I agree with you on that) so accept that what you have is what you have. He is happy. He is not going to leave you because of small boobs. But he will probably leave you if you keep telling him he will never see them or touch them because you are not happy with their size. You will probably never be happy with their size, but get over the pity party, accept yourself as you are, and have the relationship you want with your boyfriend without worrying about something you have no control over and does not bother him!

    • Thanks for not being mean unlike some people. I reread my post and I know I"m being dramatic, but that's no need for people to be mean with me. There is a difference between telling it how it is and being a jerk. I told my boyfriend I changed my mind and we are OK now. Thank you for the advice.

  • for a guy the "perfect boob" is the one that you are looking at... There are plenty of very attractive, sexy women who have small breasts. I often use Carli Bei of Naked News as an example. She's hot, and small chested And like all reporters on the site was voted on by the members, so it wasn't a pity handout. www.nakednewscdn.com/.../carli-bei-4d873144.jpg

Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions

What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!

Related Questions

Girls, do you have sex drive?
I just want to get fucked! How to get a guy to approach you/notice you at a party?
Are you mentally ill or mentally healthy, and is it difficult or easy for you to orgasm during masturbation?
If a guy told you he could cum farther than he can pee, what would be your reaction?

What Girls & Guys Said

10 14

  • He said he likes them, get over it. You're being over the top as well as over dramatic

    • Aren't you the same way about letting a guy see yours though? Minus the being over dramatic.

    • Not really...I just don't go around flashing them lol I said I probably wouldn't let a dude mess with them until I can get surgery! See them, I'm iffy about because showing them but not letting him play with them is being a tease. I like my size though!

  • If he says he loves your boobs, I don't know why your worried. He has already accepted you. They are just boobs. If he likes you, that's all that matters. Don't get your panties in a bundle over something he said about some other girls boobs in the past, he's with you, he wants you, he likes you.

  • I have bigger boobs than most (36D) and I wish I had smaller ones...Why? Because, they aren't like these fake models who have a D cup but, its a boob job..where their boobs never move never drop and look perfect. Ugh...I HATE MY BOOBS! lol And, I have the same problem as you..I do not want him to see them..though he does anyway...And claims he loves them..but, it's just ugh...they do not look like GRAPEFRUITS lol unlike fake ones...

  • Yes you're wrong. Get over your insecurities. He says he likes them so what's the problem? Hiding them from him probably isn't helping the situation. You can't change it so you might as well embrace and quit the damn complaining. Eventually he's going to get tired of hearing about how much you hate your body. It's very annoying. He says he likes your body, believe him.

  • Chill out! Small boobs are just fine. Some guys even prefer them. He told you he likes them. Listen to him!

  • yes you are wrong for hiding yourself from him. when entering the relationship he essentially signed up to be able to see you naked. but you said you don't want implants but you hate your boobs. you also said you don't want any one to tell you to accept your chest adn love yourself. so really wtf do you want? I mean those are the only options right? the options will never change, so pick one

  • I say that you should be happy he likes your breasts. And I think hiding them from him is unfair to him. This is going to sound mean but stop thinking about yourself and think about how he feels.

  • Well..u make it easy to be mean to u...I like your chest profile...and you say you hate it...and then to hide yourself from him...smh, smh, smh, smh, smh...

  • Well, if you don't want implants and I don't blame you because fake is lame, then you're just going to have to trust guys when they say that your breasts turn them on.

    • And one more thing. Nobody, no matter how 'perfect' they are, owns another person. Sometimes we have people in our life that love us and that's all anyone can hope for. It's rarely permanent, focus on the here and now.

  • We're on the same boat with small boobs but I'm 2 inch taller. Honestly, why get so worked up over something you have no control over. He's already dating you, means he accepts your boobs so chill and don't stress over it.

    • Yeah..no kidding..u are sexy...but I already told you that on a different day...did I not?

  • you can not do anything. if he love you he will accept you with boobs. and may be your boobs good

  • Try this, sleep with him with a determined attitude and rock his world and he'll forget Scarlet's tits. Every guy thinks she had perfect tits and she got a reduction by the way, men won't leave for a bigger set but if they do then they're assholes and you win in this scenario. You don't have to waste your time and effort with someone who doesn't deserve you

  • guys love all boobs. size really don't matter a whole guys will always be attracted to them.

  • Your boobs are pretty small indeed, I don't blame you. You just need to learn to accept yourself.

    • You have small weak dick and shitty personality

  • Yes he's your man and you love him so show him that you care about him and that your not afraid to show them and he will love you for that does this help?

  • If your boyfriend complains about your boobs being small he's a dick and doesn't deserve you. Small boobs are beautiful, be proud of them.

  • You could try gaining weight but it might not go to to your boobs so eat healthy if you're gona gain healthy weight

  • Well, Scarlett Johansen pretty much DOES have the perfect pair. . .

    The good news for you is that she's probably busy.

    • What a dick you are

  • I'm in a similar boat except my boobs are big - D cups - and I don't hate them I'm just not satisfied with the way they look. My boobs feel nice and look good when I'm holding them up or wearing a bra but with no support they sag because my nipples point downward. Its upsetting and kind of why I don't like getting in relationships because I can't just go topless yet. Especially if I'm on top...I want to get over it without getting a breast lift but its hard. I feel like having no boobs is better than having saggy ones :(

  • Your boyfriend could tell that you had small boobs when he started dating you. He finds you attractive. Some guys have preferences, but most don't mind what size they are.

    • You bring up a really good point. Thank you :)

    • You're welcome. I wish you good luck on this.

  • Show More (4)

Latest Questions

If you had the power to snap your fingers and make something happen instantly what would it be?
Is sex seen as the pinnacle of value in our society?
In middle east and Asian culture incest marriage between cousins is seen normal, is that normal?
Do men like being woken up with a blowjob in the morning?
Home >  Sexual Health  > I hate my boobs I can't stand it, so I won't let my boyfriend see them, advice?