Do men really like to date a woman with a big butt, because I see they chase boobs more?

Ciara25 Xper 2

Because I see they hit on chubby women with big breasts and no butt or skinny women with big breasts and no butt, compared to a woman who really has the butt! So men are you guys afraid of the booty or you just like boobs more?

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Anonymous
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Well I'm not a guy but I love girls with big butts, its really sexy. Sorry my homo side emerges pretty often lol bi

I guess I know what you mean. A lot of guys like me and I have a flatter butt for sure. A lot of guys from my race/cultural group(black/African American) love big butts though so there definitely are guys who like it. Maybe it depends on the types of guys you want? I don't see a lack of guys liking big butts but maybe they just don't like the girls as much who just happen to have big asses? In some cultures its definitely not as popular but even then you still find a lot of guys who like some junk in the trunk lol

Don't take offense to this but one of my friends told me he sees two kinds of girls: girls with body (Meaning ass, hips, thighs, sometimes boobs too but most girls have boobs anyway) and girls with face. His theory was that while some girls out there have both, the hottest bodies and the cutest or prettiest faces don't come together so he has to choose which one he wants more and he chooses face.

That sounds dumb as hell to me but that's what he told me.

I've also heard that "bigger guys are more into big butts" in terms of penis size, so if that is true and most guys don't have big penises, most guys will prefer less curvy chicks.

I can understand that but I don't know if its usually true lol

I know black guys love big butts though, like a lot. Even many Latinos and some white guys too and I assume some Asians.
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- Ciara25
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  Girl what he said definately sounds stupid as hell! I gots to laugh LMAO LOL LOL LOL LOL! But yea my fiance is latino and he can't stand women with flat butts, but that's is preference! But I do see a lot of men talk about the booty but yet don't chase the booty! I think its mostly true about penis size, because you have to have a big one for that big bootay! I think most men don't want to admit that! That is probably why they chase flat butt women! I do hear it alot! And my fiance is a built guy
- Opinion Owner
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  Yeah size correlation and stuff is probably a reality in confidence even though my best friend who has a huge ass was just telling me about this guy she was hooking up with who had an average penis and skinny body. So Its not always true. I know guys with big d***s who just love smaller butts but I'm sure some guys feel inadequate because of their penis. I don't know lol I don't really think about it much since it doesn't affect me.
- Opinion Owner
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  maybe for some guys its like that whole "I don't want everyone staring at my girl and trying to hit on her." I know I definitely look (there goes that homo side again lol...) and you know how men are or many people who come to love you that way, very territorial. Or what they find appealing in fantasy vs. Reality. Hope I helped ya a bit! :)
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- Ciara25
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  Yea I know the penis size ain't always true of course lol! But yea that fantasy vs. reality has to go, because girl I just got through asking question about why men like nasty fake women and this guy his name was kevin! He was steadying saying that just because women don't think its sexy but men do! Men knows what sexy on a woman! I told him with both have two eyes do we, so we both know what we looking at men and women! Its like you put a circle in front of you and the women and the man both see
- Ciara25
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  Both see it, but the man saying that it looks like a square while the woman saying it is a circle! I was telling him you can't call a woman sexy, because you want to bust a nut and get pleasure out of her, because that is all you want to do and you are running from what is real and in reality that the woman you are sleeping with is not sexy at all! But just because you like the pleasure you call them sexy and hot! Me I call It like I see it , if she nasty she is nasty! If she sexy she is sexy!
- Ciara25
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  I mean you don't call a woman sexy when she is not, because you like getting the pleasure out of it! That is nasty! Then they wonder why the catch STDS! I mean you heard the saying men think with their penis rather than thinking what is right in front of their faces! I know me if I see something that is nasty, I am sure in hell I ain't going to sleep with it, you know what I mean! Just because I like the pleasure! That is gross!
Anonymous
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it depends

generally white guys chase boobs, and black guys chase butt

i know a lot of black men who prefer a woman with a A/B cup with a big booty compared to a girl with C/D cup with no booty. girls that are shaped like the letter "P" get clowned because its not attractive to have big titties and no ass like wtf do some squats

but proportion is most important of course
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- Ciara25
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  Girl but I see more women shape like a P they will get approach more or even more boyfriends compared to a girl who is shape like "b" lol because I think a lot of the guys are afraid of the big bootay lol!
toulouse Xper 7
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lately I hear guys talk about butts. in the pat I always heard breasts were sought after.. I guess as anal increases in overt popularity, the ass is where the excitement is at for a lot of guys.. I'm not into having my ass grabbed butt f***ing are doggy sex.. So, I won't be dating 'those' guys. it just doesn't look good no matter how I look at it.
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- taster
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  HAHAHAHA! I am not into breasts OR butts (and certainly not rectums!) 1) Do you have a nice face? 2) Do you have nice thighs? 3) Do I like your brain ..in your case that would be "YES" All that's left are my love of giving oral & drinking pee. Think I'm too picky? LOL! How do YOU stack up?
- Ciara25
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  lol wow but yea a lot of them talk about butts, but a lot don't get big booty type women, believe me I have seen it many of times! lol
- toulouse
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  what is it you are concerned about exactly?
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- Ciara25
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  Just how guys talk about what they like but never date what they say they like!
- toulouse
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  hm, I see. maybe you just don't know guys who like buts?
- Ciara25
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  Sweety I am down south home of the booty men! Here men yea they talk about booty all the time but get with a flat booty girl! Prime example look up Little wayne and his girlfriend and you will see what I am talking about, ain't no booty in that girl! And Little wayne is where I am from Louisiana down south!

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dudeman Guru
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im a butt man all the way if she don't have an ass I'm not really interested, unless she's like a petite girl then its OK but nothing worse then big boobs and no ass
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- Ciara25
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  But I see men chase women like that everyday even on dating sites they chase women with big boobs and no butt! Rather than a woman who actually has the butt!
- dudeman
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  ok, I'm sure guys with small d***s like big boobs but I need some more cousin for the heat I'm packing and I just find it more attractive that's where all the action is nice thick plump thighs and a nice toned ass nice calves its great
- Ciara25
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  Hey that is exactly my fiance says! Because they got small weiners! Wow it must be true than! LOL
hALLDAY Yoda
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I like both. I have not noticed this phenomenon. Guys date women they are attracted to and connect with.
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- Ciara25
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  True but they got guys who have preference and lots of times guys go to what they basically prefer!

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peace-love-couture Yoda
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Guys like a girl who has a proportional body.

I don't understand why girls make it the extremes.

Not all boob guys are into big boobs and not all butt guys are into big butts.
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- taster
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  Oui, c'est vrai...
- Ciara25
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  Um not necerssarily I can bet you the boob guy is going to chase the boobs more than the butt that is no doubt and the butt guy is going to chase the woman with the butt! Most of the time that is the case, but some will make an exception for certain women that are not their tastes, but may I remind you while they are with the women they have no taste for, they are steady looking at the woman who do have their type of taste! Its like choosing what foods you like to eat and what tastes better!
SuperCurious Explorer
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I think majority of men like proportion :) but all men are different with what they prefer.
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- taster
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  Oh..change your Profile pic...nice legs...but what you are holding?
- SuperCurious
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  Why? It's a fish
- Ciara25
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  That is true!
DocClassic Yoda
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boobs are so much cooler...not even close
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- Ciara25
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  So you like boobs more than?
- DocClassic
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  right, way more...they are just better haha
- Ciara25
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  O I know what it is for but I can say on here LMAO!
EngineeringStudent Guru
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I like both, so either or for me. I used to be more of a butt guy, but I grew to like boobs just as much.
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- Ciara25
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  So you like a girl with boobs and butt not bad! But how big we talking here tho? lol
RedThread78 Xper 2
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I'm actually more into hips, butt, and legs. I was never much of a breast guy I don't know why...
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- Ciara25
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  Great that's more natural, because that is what gives the woman her shape most of the time!
Anonymous
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Most guys these days seem to be into butts. I think a lot of girls would like to believe that guys like breasts more because it's not as common to find a girl with a big, bubbly butt than it is to find a girl with big breasts.
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- Ciara25
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  Naw I see more guys into other things rather than the butts, because if that so black women would be on the pedstal of society of beauty in the eyes of the media! So I beg to differ that, most men don't like the booty sweety take my word for it! I have seen many men chase women and believe me, it is not because of the butt!
- Opinion Owner
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  Woah you bringing "the pedestal of society of beauty" into it is a completely different topic! The only reason white women are viewed as the standard of beauty is because there are WHITE WORKERS promoting white women as beautiful. A lot of white women don't even have big boobs unless they're fat. Big boobs with a nice figure is more common with Latinas, Brazilians or black women. I think you just want to believe that all men like big boobs because you probably don't have much of an ass
- Opinion Owner
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  You seem to really be digging for compliments and it's a little pathetic the way you're going about it insisting that men do not like big butts. How about you stop focusing on what men like and focusing on fixing that low self esteem? Good men don't chase a women for her butt or breasts point blank. Men who will chase a girl for her body are usually just trying to get in her pants. You act like it's some badge of honor to have a guy chasing you for something as superficial as breasts.
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- Ciara25
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  Hun I don't have to believe all men like big boobs, they show it to me every second, I even see it when I go to the store! And you right they are white people supporting the standard society of beauty but guess what? Most miniorities not all but most these days also help support that white standard as well! Because if they didn't weave and lightskinned women want be in to the spotlight most of the time! You see I call it like I see it! I go straight to the point no sugarcoating here hun!
- Ciara25
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  You say big butt girl I am short with a 45 inch ass now what you think! But I really don't have to explain my assests to you, because its none of your buisness if I have an ass or not! You right good men don't chase men just for their body, but let the women at least look like women! Not some nasty hooker of the street that looks like crap! I am pretty sure you wouldn't want to date somebody that looks like crap lol!
- Ciara25
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  I meant good men don't chase men just for their body forget the men part! And stop focusing on what men like, girl I see what men like everyday, I can't help it, because they check it out and they very obvious with it as well! But I don't think you read my question carefully! I am not talking about why men do not like boobs, I am talking about why men donot like the booty, because most I see they chase they boobs! Now you can't say I don't see it, because you ain't here with me, So tough luck!
- Ciara25
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  I meant good men don't chase women just for their body but at least let them look like neat pretty women!
- Ciara25
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  Oh how I am fishing for compliments asking a question about what men really likes? Answer me that, because not one time I mentioned about me! Just think about what you just said!
- Opinion Owner
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  Wow...first of all, you talk way too much lol it's not even that seroius. You need to get over yourself. I'm willing to bet not nearly as many people think as highly of you as you think of yourself. You are very ignorant. I'm not going to argue with you about beauty because I think that's pathetic lol I will say that just because other types of beauty aren't represented as much, doesn't make them less beautiful. Personally, I think white women look the most common.
- Opinion Owner
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  When I look at the gorgeous golden brown to dark chocolaty skin tones and the red brown skin tones that vary through out Native Americans, Indonesians, East Indians, Middle Easterns, Asians especially Filipinos, Aboriginals, black people and so much more, I think that white looks are outshined. That's just my opinion. Usually when I see a white girl, I feel like I've seen about 50 girls in my lifetime that look like her.
- Opinion Owner
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  I think you're digging for compliments because I simply disagreed with you and gave my opinion based off of what I see and you are so determined to prove me wrong. You're trying so hard to make me think that most men only like big boobs. It's pretty sad to watch actually lol If you weren't fishing for compliments and approval, then why not just accept my opinion and keep it moving?you keep arguing and bitching and it makes me think you just don't like that I didn't tell you what you want to hear
- Ciara25
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  Oh so you are saying that you are bitchy as well, because first of all you the one who made that statement about me fishing for compliments and all that other bull, because you the one that didn't agree with me am I correct? Because you said it in your statement, you can't take it back when it is in there lol! Yea I see most men going after boobs, because that's what I see in my area, may not be for you, but I pretty much see it! So sorry sweety if you disagree with me! You get over it!
- Ciara25
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  Because You are talking waaaaaaaaaay too much! You can clearly see me fishing for compliments and even come out my mouth! Only yours! And don't say I talk too much, when I clearly see you talk waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay too much for me! You ain't no better! Girl no I don't think highly then others, its just people like you need to wake up from what is happening in the world today, because I clearly see you don't!
- Ciara25
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  I am glad you think other race of women are pretty, but guess what! What kind of women either the ones that don't take care of themselves or the ones that do take care of themselves! Because you are clearly saying that a hoochie who doesn't take good care of herself and is nasty as F is pretty! lol yep you said it! So I am saying to you which woman are you talking about! Because I think really you are sick or confused! Just simple as that!
- Ciara25
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  Oh guess what you just said that I'm going to copy and paste this: lol I will say that just because other types of beauty aren't represented as much, doesn't make them less beautiful. Personally, I think white women look the most common. OK you think not anyone less beautiful or not, but the white is lesser then a woman of color! Just think about what you just said! Everyone should take care of themselves that's how I see it! People will seem as attractive, but a lot of people donot so therefore
- Ciara25
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  you already know the deal! So my advice is this people take really good care of themselves and then they will have a prosperous life! That's how I see it! Because you contradict yourself in that statement! You say no one is less beautiful, but you think white women is less beautiful! Get what you just said lol!
- Opinion Owner
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  I'm not reading all of that lol I will only skim through it you wasted your time talking so much
- Opinion Owner
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  "Because you are clearly saying that a hoochie who doesn't take good care of herself and is nasty as F is pretty" I never said anything about hoochies lol this is like arguing with a 14 year old girl who think she knows everything. I don't think white women are less beautiful. I just think their looks get outshined by other ethnicities with more exotic, unique looks. White women tend to look very commmon and just not all that eye catching.
- Opinion Owner
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  If I was standing on a stage looking into a crowd of women full o Brazilians, blacks, Cambodians, Filipinas, Ethiopians, Somalians, Aboriginals of Austrialia (they're like black people with blond hair), Biracials, Multiracials, and whites...I would notice the white women last. They just don't usually look all that interesting to me. Like I said, you're clearly digging for compliments lol if you weren't then you wouldn't be so persistant in trying to convince everyone that it's boobs that...
- Opinion Owner
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  men love. It's boobs that men stare at. lol it's so pathetic lol like base your confidence off of something else other than men staring at you!
- Ciara25
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  You see that?s the reason you should read, because I see your comprehension is off! Lol You are writing too much and can?t hardly comprehend lol! Now that is sad I clearly stated in my statement you said in Quotes ?that I will say that just because other types of beauty aren't represented as much, doesn't make them less beautiful. Personally, I think white women look the most common.?
- Ciara25
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  Well so you said that! And I said , in your statement that you said that since other people are not represented as much as beauty standards they can be beautiful as well, so you included the hoochies as well because they don?t take care of themselves but yet is a form of beauty, Now that?s what you have said Lol ! Not me! Get it right chick!
- Ciara25
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  And you just got through saying nobody is less beautiful but yet you say white women are less beautiful! You see I think you are clearly right, that you are 14, because your comprehension skills is of a 14 year old! Thanks for telling everybody your age, so I know who I am speaking too!
- Ciara25
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  And digging for compliments is the least of my worry! I don?t need compliments from you or anybody else! Especially not you, because I could give a care lol! Yeah I see men where I live at, most chase boobs! Now that?s what I have seen! So chick get over it and move on, because I was asking men in the first place not woman! Are you a man? NO I don?t think so, so get to stepping!
- Opinion Owner
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  no sweetheart, clearly YOU are the one who can't comprehend that YOU are making yourself look very silly. I'm not reading your essay type posts. The only reason mine are long is because of the spaces. You don't even make valid points. You just talk sh*t. I don't care how big your boobs are, good luck getting a guy to claim you with that personality!
- Opinion Owner
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  Get to steeping? bitch please! lol GET.OVER.YOURSELF. You are not some big deal! Anon is gonna get to stepping when she feels like stepping and Anon is gonna say whatever she wants to say however she wants to say it. If you don't like it, then YOU get to stepping with your insecure, whiny ass! You may have asked guys but last time I checked, this is a PUBLIC FORUM and a free fckn country! I can come here and answer all I want. wtf are you gonna do about it? :) hehehe
- Opinion Owner
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  All you keep talking about is comprehension skills as if you're so clever LMAO you're a joke! I told you my opinion. why are you making it out to be bigger than it needs to be? why can't you just accept it and stop running your mouth for no reason? you talk waaaay too much about sh*t no one cares to listen to
Anonymous
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Run Forrest! Run!
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- Ciara25
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  Lol girl you are crazy LMAO!
- Opinion Owner
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  they chase for boobs because they wish they have one to play with, LOL
- Ciara25
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  Lol! I was going to say exact that but I didn't want to say it on here lol! You are funny LMAO!
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- Opinion Owner
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  And no, men don't really like to date a woman with a big butt. They MARRY them to have a higher chance birth rate :P
- Ciara25
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  Lol not necessairly the case girlie because the boob men will chase the boobs but the butt man will chase the butt! That's how it is always been call prefernce, Because I have seen many big booty women with men who grabs on them all the time! So I don't think that's the case everybody got their tastes I say! But there are exceptions like I said before lol!
- Opinion Owner
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  maybe boob men like their milk production LOL, butt men like their ability to give birth LOL face men can't decide between boob or butt XD
- Ciara25
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  LMAO OMG girl you are funny as hell! We can definately hang out, you got a sense of humor on you LMAO!
- Opinion Owner
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  *high five* (Borat style)
- Ciara25
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  LOL High five! (BORAT RIGHT BACK ATCHA)!
Anonymous
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Personally, I don't like big butts. I don't chase after big boobs either.
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- Ciara25
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  So you a face guy?
- Opinion Owner
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  Yes, but I do prefer the boobs and butt to be on the smaller side.
- taster
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  Yeah...speaks for me...
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- Ciara25
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  O ok!