How would you react if someone told you they gave you chlamydia?

Question

I recently found out that I have chlamydia from a previous relationship. Before I got my results back from getting tested at a clinic I had met a guy who had a girlfriend but him & I started a sexual relationship. He knew that me & the last guy had unprotected sex but he still slept with me trusting me. I trusted the last guy but he gave me something so from there I most certainly passed it to him & he probably gave it to his girl. What would you say or how would you react if I told you I unknowingly gave it to you & brought medicine for you & your girlfriend? I'm so sorry so truly sorry

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

This same exact thing happened to me and the guy with the gf was really nice to e and thanked me for my honesty he did not blame me he actually blamed himself for being careless and he had to go to his gf the truth life can be a bitch but nothing is that bad people get over things and if everyone is adults about the situation it makes it a little easier even though it is stressful.

Animal_Girl · Accepted Answer

I'd be really goddamn pissed. But, at the same time, that's why you don't:

1. Cheat on your girlfriend/boyfriend with a random person

2. Have unsafe sex with a stranger

3. You should always get checked if you're going to have sex with someone you don't know - not very practical when having casual sex, but should still be done

Aly007 · Accepted Answer

My girlfriend me chlamydia. She didn't she had it, because she had only one previous partner, at first I was mad because I didn't know if I could trust her, then understood that things happen. Your not a slut just because of that. You just have to be honest and, remember it's but your fault

brenster · Accepted Answer

I think I'd take it pretty well. Chlamydia often doesn't show any symptoms in both men and women. Now, had you done it on purpose, that would be a whole different story. But don't beat yourself up, theses things happen. Besides, there are very few (only two I can think of) stds which can't be cleared up with antibiotics. In the future though, stay safe.

Lupianwolf · Accepted Answer

Well annoyed, but if I wasn't wearing protection and knew you've had sex can't blame you really and because you told us and bought medicine I can't stay mad at you

Chlamydia I've heard is not serious and can be treated easily especially if early

good thing you told as there sometimes can be no symptoms for it

peace-love-couture · Answer

Now we know why certain types of girls are called sluts/whores...and I'm generally against those words. I think girls like this are the exception.

This is one of those situation where I'd have to be in to actually know. I could say I'd act a certain way, but when it actually happens to you, it's different

alice520 · Answer

i don't know !haha !  .may you come to these related site like "herpesanddating.net" for help, many stds people there .

SunSeeker · Answer

I'd be a little upset but SOOOO GLAD you didn't give me HIV or the herps!

Lucky1227 · Answer

ewwww!

taster · Answer

Did you test positive for sure?     If so then he needs to be tested right away...might get lucky ...or something?

bel42 · Answer

i would be so mad.

dudeman · Answer

people suck

Imjustmevee · Answer

What do you do when something pops up and you didn't know about it?

Anonymous · Answer

Well, most people with stds have no idea. The guy will likely be mad, but its equally his fault for not insisting ona condom. Its not like you knew it (most people don't).  If he freaks out, he's being really immature.