Big boobs at the beach? how to not look slutty?

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I am a 36d in bra size and my friends and I are going to the beach. they have small boobs so they can wear whatever, but when we went swimsuit shopping they told me to avoid a bikini and to probably avoid a 1 piece because it comes across as slutty when a girl with big boobs wears a bikini or bathing suit.my options now are to wear a tank top with my bra underneath and soffe shorts with panties underneath or to wear basketball shorts  and a plain white hanes t shirt. which one would look better? or should I wear the tank top with basketball shorts so I don't show much leg?I don't want to look slutty, please help

Jasmine92 · Accepted Answer

This reminds me of once when I was in middle school my friend had a pool party and one of our other friends, who had developed ridiculously early, was there. Not only did she have boobs before everyone else, they were gigantic! And they only looked bigger since the rest of her was rail thin. Well anyway, the mom of the girl hosting the party ended up making the girl wear a big white t shirt over top of her bikini. She claimed it was because there were little kids at the party but I’m pretty sure she had caught her husband staring. Lol. Fast forward an hour and you could tell that the girl had removed her bikini from underneath the t shirt because those suckers were bouncing everywhere. Lol. We made fun of her because you could see her nipples were hard and roughly the size of pencil erasers. Needless to say it took a while for her to live this down.

tohrment · Accepted Answer

Eurgh, story of my life. Honestly, either way it's most likely you'll look at least a little like a p*rnstar (LOL). But, the best thing to do is to make sure your nipples are covered and rock it out. You won't come across as "slutty" unless you act like it. At the beach everyone is in bikinis, big boobs won't make you a slut. That's about behavior . Just be confident and make sure your bits are covered and you'll be fine. As for your friends telling you to cover up - that's crazy! My girlfriends are the complete opposite, they tell me NOT to cover up (because I can be super reserved) and they have tiny boobs. But honestly, maybe they are just hating on you.

Own your body, and I assure you no one will think any less of you for it.

VIVANT · Accepted Answer

wow, your friends are trying to make you look less hot. lol do you see many women wearing t shirts to swim in? c'mon. wear what you like !

you can get very nice two piece that fully cover your breasts.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

You might not listen because this is from a guy's perspective. But wear what YOU want to wear. Don't let your friends decide for you. I personally think they're trying to make you wear stuff that hides what's attractive. It's almost like if there was a group of guys and one of them was pretty buff and his friends said "Hey don't walk around the beach with your shirt off because it's bad to show it off to people." Just wear whatever you want. BTW the basketball shorts and the hanes shirt is definitely not attractive on a girl at all.

l-hedoniste · Accepted Answer

"we went swimsuit shopping they told me to avoid a bikini and to probably avoid a 1 piece because it comes across as slutty" I hate this psychological warfare bullsh*t girls do sometimes.

Don't let your friends' jealousy become your dress code. Think about it; your friends will all be in bikinis and swimsuits, and here you show up in a t-shirt in shorts. A little odd, no? Wear what you want, whatever looks good in the mirror.

P.S.: Also, reconsider your choice of friends.

Minxxe · Answer

it does not look slutty if your bikini or costume fits you, you can't help having big boobs same as you can't help having small ones. why should you hide them because your friends say so. I think there may be some envy on their part but honestly you're all gonna look great so what's the problem?

guys will be checking out all of you so don't be self-conscious whether you're big or small breasted. we're all born with what we have, no need to be ashamed of what's yours.

peace-love-couture · Answer

You look your flat chested friends in the eyes and tell them to shut the f*** up? It's always girls with small boobs who put down girls with big boobs lmao

They resort to the "slut" thing. Typical, but true

Wear whatever you want

AustinMan · Answer

Hey! Gorgeous is not slutty. A bikini would be pushing it but there are plenty of tasteful one piece swimsuits out there that can accommodate a figure like yours. My wife, who's also quite buxom (praise the Lord!) has some so I know they exist. I'd go to a swimsuit shop alone and get the girl closest to your age and build to help you find one.

Good luck.

heavenonearth · Answer

I'd wear the bikini or one-piece if I were you, but if it really bothers you I think the tank top and soffe shorts would look better.

xzinax2 · Answer

so just cause they're flat they have the right to wear what they want? HELL NO! wear what you want

1991bh · Answer

sounds like your small-chested friends are jealous. wearing a bikini with big boobs is NOT slutty by any means. if you think you look good in a bikini, wear one. I'm also a 36D and I wear bikinis, and I don't plan on changing that any time soon.

i have found, thought, that halter top bikinis offer the best support. triangle tops, not so much.

dvd89 · Answer

Your friends are jealous and think that bigger is always better which of course is not always true. There is no such thing as "dressing slutty"..only acting slutty. Wear what YOU want to wear not what your friends think you should wear and do not let anyone tell you different

Deft_maiden · Answer

Tankini's look very attractive. They offer coverage yet you still can show some stomach. Best of both worlds...

Deft_maiden · Answer

It is not what you wear. It is how you carry yourself.. So wear what you look good and feel comfortable in. Never mind the chatter boxes.. Lol

Paigeeeeeeee · Answer

Your friends are being rude and jealous. Those aren't real friends. Someone who cares about you wouldent try to make you feel bad about your body. You should wear whatever swimsuit you feel confident in and get some new friends

crystalrain · Answer

lol forget them you can wear a bikini lol just find one that's supportive and that you feel comfortable in :)

sweet_18 · Answer

So basically they are calling you slutty for having  big boobs. Basically. As if you could have chosen a boob size.

soe11 · Answer

Wear whatever you fancy. My girlfriend wear Teeny Tiny bikini. Her mom wear Thong bikini. Both wear some occasions triangle tiny adjustable string bikinis.

Scarecrow13 · Answer

Wear whatever you want.

vald9inches · Answer

go toppless forget what your jealous friends say lol

WhoDatGuy · Answer

Wear whatever. They probably gonna be jealous and catty either way

hengan · Answer

of course you can wear a bikini .just find a nice one that covers and supports nicely. ( not a sting thing but wide straps. or the ones that go straight in the middle.

I would say a 1piece makes them seem even larger.

slutty is in the behavior not clothes. just be proud and don't be influenced.

appl3s123 · Answer

They make one peice bathing suits that look like dresses its one peice underneath an a dress on top, I use those I have  the same issue

Anonymous · Answer

theyre jealous hun. if you want to wear a bikini, wear the bikini. FUCK THEM

Anonymous · Answer

That's really stupid advice, IMHO.  If the rest of your body is thin, you'll look best in a bikini.  If you're thick in the middle, stick to a once piece.

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