1. A teenager experimenting would be a consentual act, SHE may have been experimenting on you, but you, unfortunately, were molested, sad to say. I wouldn't doubt she's done this before though. Took a lot of balls to molest a friend in their sleep. Plus she was definitely old enough to know better. She's a predator.
2.It isn't blocking what she did but it is the "damage" or repercussions of the abuse. She has made you afraid of that kind of intimacy. You were her victim and now you carry emotional scars
3. If it was truly unwelcome (and I understand the being frozen thing, it happens to most rape victims) I would definitely confront her about it. Since she can't really rape people I'm not sure if there's any real point in reporting her except for revenge (humiliation of being reported, people finding out what she did, her becoming a sex offender) If I were you I'd totally do it. I'd also tell her mother and her friends. I wouldn't care what others thought me since I'd be the victim anyways. I'd freakin' take her down and let her know that what she did was WRONG and that she should never hurt another like she did to me.
4. I finally got over something similar. It took time. What will help the healing process is to confide in family, friends or most importantly a councelor or professional of some kind (your school should provide them). Don't try and endure this alone. Tell your boyfriend too, he should hopefully understand and try to be more sensitive and help you through it.
5.Yes definitely talk about it. You can't keep this bottled up. It's not good for you. Good luck. Best wishes. Hope karma gets that bitch for what she's done to you. I can't believe she'd be willing to compromise a friendship like that. IF she really wanted a sexual relationship with you then she should have ASKED you, not waited until you were unconcious like a snake.3 0 0 0its sexual abuse when you didn't like or ask for her to do that. teenage experiementation is when both consent to doing this.
it could be a response to what happened to you because it brings back memories of what happened to you.
you can't report something that happened a long time ago. you have proof it happened except for the memory. unless you can prove it, like have a gone to get a rape kit done the day it happened, there's nothing you can do.
you will get through this but I do suggest a little counselling. talking through what happened to a professional seems to help most rape victims to see that it wasn't their fault and that not every person is out to hurt you in that way. and if you trust your boyfriend, then you can talk to him about your problem and he can help you heal and maybe be more aware of your situation and be supportive. it always helps to talk about your stiuation. it helps you get it off your chest and clears the pain you've been bearing.
Best of luck in the future!1 0 0 0What happened obviously wasn't consensual. I wouldn't call that teenagers experimenting.
I think it would be best for you to seek help from a professional, though. You're obviously struggling with this and it seems as though it's getting in the way of your relationship with your boyfriend.
I don't think it's a matter of "getting over it", by the way. You don't ever just "get over" something like this. However, you can work through it and live a happy, productive life despite what happened. It doesn't have to be on your mind 24/7 and with the right help, you'll find that getting through it is possible.
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Yes it was and that girl can get in trouble, IF the police believes it.
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4 1I definately think you should see a professional it has obviously had a profound effect on you weither or not it is considered abuse doesn't matter what matters is helping you to move past it and get on with your life!
1 0 0 01. Yes, you were abused.
2. You probably are blocking it out.
3. Let it go. Especially since it was years ago.
4. Therapy will help you get over it.
5. Tell a therapist.1 0 1 0I think you should go and talk to a professional.. They will tell you all you need to know and help you make the right decisions for you. Anyone on this site will give you their opinions, but their opions aren't going to help you make the right one for you.
The longer you put off seeing a professional, the harder it will be to comfront it .2 2 0 0^^ I agree with anon. I think that you shouldn't bury it under the carpet because it was obviously a traumatic experience for you if you didn't like it and it is now effecting how you feel with boyfriends. Only you can answer if you were abused. I think if the experience was so horrible for you and it wasn't consensual then it seems like a form of abuse. Did you talk to the girl abot it afterwards? I'm so sorry your hurting. I think you need to definitely talk to someone who can help you throug
it is abuse if you were not a willing participant. You didn't tell her to stop...ofcourse you didn't tell her it was okay either. I personally wouldn't call the cops, but I can't advise you on that.
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