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Should I go for a prostitute?

Well I'm completely against prostitution BUT being in my mid-20's and never getting the chance to kiss a girl my whole life, should I go for a prostitute. There's really no hope anymore for me since I'm only 5'8, not good looking, not big or muscular, not a guy with a lot of money, not a macho bad boy, etc. So yeah, should I go for a hooker so I can at least die having to experience something with a girl rather than nothing? I've spent over half my life looking for a girl and none of them ever gave me a chance so I can't be patient any longer.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Don't! Going for a prostitute is so sad chances are you won't even enjoy it. It's not true that you are hopless, no one is. Dating and getting girls is just a skill, and it really comes down on how yo feel about yourself. The dating game is 80% inner game. So the moment you stop pitying yourself and start feeling better, you'll be a different man.

    I don't doubt that you need help with this dating stuff, and there are lots and lots of information on the net on how to improve yourself and how to improve your game. The first stop is fastseduction.com player guide (I can't post links until I reach level 4 :( ) and then go out, start meeting women. You can only get skilled at something with practice.

    Build up some confidence, start improving yourself, you won't get rich, or taller, or muscular or better looking by tomorrow, that takes time, but you can improve your personality right now.

    Women care less about looks than about feelings, so its not about how good looking you are, its about how do they feel with you and arround you. No one but you can make a change in your life, and going for a prostitute is a valid choice but not the best.

  • Dont listen to these people, go for it.

    Just make sure you get a good one.

    Lots of guys use call girls on occasion. Think about it, theirs millions of hookers and they service multipe clients therefore lots of people do it.

    Im good looking, fit, and I have money but I've still done a couple hookers. Why not?

    At the very least you will have a good time, and gain some confidence.

Most Helpful Girls

  • If you are against it then absolutely don't do it.

    Its probably more your attitude that you haven't been with a girl. 5'8 is seriously not a problem. You are probably better looking than you think you are, most girls don't like big muscular guys, unless she's a gold digger girls don't really factor in how much money a guy has into whether she likes him or not, there is a difference between being confident and being a macho bad boy.

    You just have to put yourself out there and not be afraid of being rejected (I know easier said than done). You are only in your twenties, you have plenty of time to find a girl who is different from all the others. Its your hopelessness and desperation that turn of girls. If you are confident, and proud of yourself, then you are more likely to find a girl.

  • No. You'll find someone somewhere. If you do this, you'll regret it.

    You're not the only one in that category. Normal persons are no movie stars. Personally, I don't like muscular, please stop with being macho, you don't need to be handsome, ore have a lot of money. I'm 5,5, my boyfriend like you.

    Don't worry, you'll be okay. Just don't give up!

    • You gotta understand it's not easy for us guys as it is for you girls. Girls, even if they are completely fat or the least attractive girl on Earth, will still have few guys lined up to go out with them. For guys it's way more difficult since girls are much more shallow and picky in guys. Based on this fact, I can't afford to wait any longer. I highly doubt I'll regret it since I'll finally be stress free. Some guys are just not meant to get a girl since they are seen inferior by girls.

    • Like I said, I wouldn't care about any of your "shortcomings" (like you describe them). And if you think girls are that shallow and picky, you shouldn't even want to date.

  • a prostitute is nothing like a real girl so please do not think a prostitute is a substitute, she is only a rentable f*** hole. not advisable for a nice clean young man to taint himself in this way. bear in mind once you've been with a whore most other women will not want to touch you for obvious reasons.

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  • I wouldn't but that's just me I'm 5'8" but the sercret is knowing how to talk to girls not really being the biggest and most badass yeah that may get you layed but in the end it's all how you talk to them

  • I don't know about a hooker, but... If you can score a Call girl, go for it!

  • my ex boyfriend used to try to stop me from gossiping and he would say "theres something cute about everyone...you just have to try to find it." find what's cute about yourself and flaunt it. I'm 4'11" and you're kinds tall. I like tall guys so find a short girl in your area and ask her out...she doesn't have to be stunning...just willing:)

  • honestly I think some guys are just outcasts in the dating game, some of us just aren't meant to have a girl of our own I guess

    do what you gotta do

    • You are right. There are a lot of guys who are just not meant to get a girl since girls are much more picky and shallow as compared to guys.

  • To me it sounds like you're desperate and you're willing to compromise all your values. If guys over here that are ass ugly, can get laid I'm sure you can too. Try posting a profile on the internet? or standing back and look at yourself, so you can see why girls don't want to give it to you.

    • Those guys that are "ass ugly" get laid because of money, or else not even "ass ugly" girls give them a chance.

  • I guess you just need to see the prostitute for what it is, paid sex. It won't have any emotional connection but from what I have heard, they are very good at what they do.

  • I bet when you stop looking you will find one. just do what you do and be happy the right girl will come when you least expect it... how are you going to feel if you get a hooker tonight and meet the girl of your dreams in the morning?

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