When a single woman gets really horny, what do you do?

[archer86]

You wake up one any given day and the horn-dogs are just barking up a storm. It's been a long time since your last sexual fling if ever. Your body is telling you to either sit on a man's crotch or you are sitting on a plunger. Let's look at the choices: 1. You want a really hot guy but there just are not enough of them that fulfills your expansive list of qualifications. It's true that women don't screw just anybody, but finding your type is difficult. 2. There are LOTS of guys you know whom you can jump right now and save yourself the drama but none of them are your type. Yet, you may be able to keep this discreet. You are just looking for a booty call. 3. Men are pigs, too much drama involved and you decide that an inanimate object is the item of choice over a living person. But if you get caught by your roomies and/or friends... 4. The Bible says otherwise, it's a sin. You must wait until marriage, whenever that may happen and if. God loves you, he just won't allow you to make love. Come on ladies, this should not be kept a secret. Us men want to know. Or do we have to drive up to Canada and hire sex workers there?

[Anonymous]

Honestly not much. Probably 3 if anything. When I am attracted to a man it has to be partially mental too, I have to like his personality and find him intelligent, because along with looks that is really sexy, and a dumb really hot guy who might as well have an egg for a brain will definitely not turn me on in the bedroom. Attraction is very multi-faced for me, I'd rather be horny by myself than have sex with some gorgeous dumb guy or whatever.



Unless I'm super attracted I'm waiting until I really feel it's right. Actual sex means giving a part of myself away, and I'm not prepared to do that so easily, probably not unless you mean something to me, or I am super attracted to you mentally and physically. I don't meet guys like this often. Sometimes the type like this that I would sleep with but not want to date is the one I would probably end up having sex with (Ex: he's not the right age for me to date-I am attracted to older men but I know dating someone too much older is pointless. Not older like 65, I mean a 15+ year age gap, a man like that I'd probably want a casual fling with if I was going to do that) And if he was the type I could date, I wouldn't want to ruin it by having sex with him. Going and having sex with a lot of guys is a vicious cycle. Girls get horny but the truth is that if you keep doing it is probably to fill a void that you have from being single. And for a girl, sex is fun but then afterward you feel like you're left with nothing even though you let a guy do something very intimate to you, and then you go out and seek more so you can forget that you aren't finding a boyfriend who really cares about you and fills the deeper emotional void only a partner can fill.

So all in all, I guess I'll take the fingers, inanimate objects, and my daydreams unless the guy is really something else. Or I'll fool around with a guy but not go all the way. Then I don't feel like I'm giving myself away so much, the way I would with sex.

I don't like that you brought number 4 into this. This isn't a website of religious matter, nor is the intent a religious discussion, so I would just substitute it with "No, because I'm intent on waiting until marriage" to make things more fair and equal to everyone else. Waiting until marriage can be a personal moral choice for reasons not related to religion. Not trying to fight, just trying to be fair to everyone. (Plus it may skew your results)

[Yukey]

Lol

Even if you say if, I don't think its ever gonna happen

I'm 19 and that nevr EVER happened to me xD

If it would EVER to happen: D

Why? I have better things to do eyther way, why would I waste my time with even an inanimate object e_e

[SuperCurious]

They buy a vibrator :)

[irykiryk]

when there are horndogs out, who do you call? Hornbusters!