Just like a strip club (they've had time to practice it). Start off dancing to the music, whether cast or slow. Either some type of R&B for slow dancing, or some good rock music for the more "bad girl" kind of dances. Do some dancing and moving around. Model your body a little bit- run your hands all over (but don't touch the naughty bits early on, make him wait), turn around occasionally to let him see all of you, basically that level between dancing and strip teasing. Then move into removing clothes slowly and one-by-one. Make him really start wanting to see the goods...but draw back and cover up two or three times. Once the nakedness happens, make him follow by club rules- no touching allowed, hands on the table or by his side. Then it's up to you to really set him off. If you're only topless, then you could try the whole "legs over his shoulders" thing so it's right in his face and he can look up and see your whole body. If you're bottomless too, then keeping a little distance but showing everything down there. You could finish it up with his face in your chest for like 5 seconds or so, moving your boobs all around for him. Then bring your face down the side of his until you get to his ear, then tug and/or suck on his ear with your mouth for a few seconds.
Then whatever you'd like to do after the dance :)
Great ideas! Do you have any other suggestions? And, what could I do/ what would you prefer right after the dance?
Umm well I'm sure if you get in the moment, as well as feel comfortable letting your imagination come out, then you could figure out more fun things to do. As for right after, you could either end it there and be a huge tease to make him anticipate when you all have sex next. Or you could take him to the bedroom (if you aren't already), lay on the bed, then motion for him to "come and get me".
Think of it as giving your man an experience. Every sexual situation is an experience that we store for use when we do not have our women and we are feeling the need. For me it is about the teasing, the playfulness, the light touching and rubbing against my hard on. Also getting into positions that we would like to do. Guys want to feel desired. When a women starts begging for us (no women I have ever been with has done this) we feel good. Flat out you want to make your man feel good than beg for him to be inside you. Most women never do this. At least none that I have been with.
I can't say I've had lots of experiences with lap dances but I have experience stripping and lap dancing for my boyfriend.
Usually a dance should last the length of a song - 3 or 4 minutes.
While you're dancing, run your hands over his chest, your fingers over his neck, if you're down between his legs run your hands over his thighs and over his crotch. Just do it in a teasing way. If you're on top of him or close to him, you can give him a light teasing kiss.
What I think makes a lap dance so enjoyable is the confidence a woman has in herself. She knows she's hot and sexy and that just by the way she moves she can make her guy powerless. The confidence reflects all over, it show in the way you move, the way you look, your expressions, etc.
Also a key, all your movements should be slow. The slower the sexier and the more of a tease it is.
You should feel comfortable with yourself and have fun with it because then he'll enjoy it that much more.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Tie my hands and do whatever you like, I can't really control myself in that teasing situation.
I like the whole thing of a girl teasing me with her body rubbing up against me dry humping me a bit and then undressing slowly, sometimes turning away and giggling and then when she is done undresses me and kisses me on the neck, then caresses my body, and plays with me . Talking erotically while doing the strip is nice. I like it to take as long as it takes, the longer the better.
I don't know about the best, but lll tell you what not to do. The one and only time I went to a strip club was for my Bachelor party. The guys I were with found a girl that said she gives the best lap dances in the club so they bought me one...worst lap dance EVER! She thought it would be nice to use her shins rub in and out of my thighs and crotch. By the time she was done, I thought my balls would have bruises. Please ladies out there, do not try to turn on your guy with the hardest damn bone you've got, it isn't pleasant at all.
I've only seen this in the movies. It turns me on, but I'd like to do it with my partner, not a whore...
And, what would you like her to do?
The kind of things one sees in a p*rn movie -- which I agree, are quite hot and excite the imagination. Dancing semi-nude (more attractive than fully nude!) specially for me. Attempting to seduce me. Making me feel wanted. Lap-dancing on me, while rubbing my bulging pants with her naked pu**y. Tying me helplessly on a chair. Stripping my clothes with her teeth, and then raping me! Till I'm so charged that I just give her the brutal sex she's asking for!
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