In the long run, how much do muscles matter when attracted to a guy?

hey all, I think we all know that most girls like a fit guy (toned arms, six pack etc) but I was wanting to know if that really is important in the long run. For example, I like girls with good size boobs. Not too big though; I think c cup is best. Now while I would find most girls really attractive with that trait, it doesn't really matter to me- if I met a girl who I really clicked with but say she had A or B cups obviously it wouldn't matter to me. I think its one of those things where you can fantasize but would never really commit just because of appearance. So yeah girls my question how important is muscles when looking for a guy in the long run? It's OK if is really important to you, just be honest because I'm really curious. I do expect most girls to want to date healthy guys though - someone not obviously overweight or anorexic. that's just good biological sense. that's probably the one physical trait that is a must for me.
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  • It depends on the girl. I'm mean, for me, personally, six packs do nothing for me at all, I prefer a guy who's a little more 'normal' looking in that area; but I do like good arms on a man, and broad shoulders.

    But whatever a girl's preference; it's not a necessity you know. Appearance only goes so far - and there's so much more to appearance than just muscles; I have a general 'type' but it doesn't mean I haven't strayed from it in the past, good looking is good looking be it podgy, slim, muscular, short, tall, whatever.

    A girl might 'prefer' a guy who looks a certain way - but if he doesn't tick the boxes in other areas, it's never going to work in the long run.

  • Obviously healthy and hygienic is a must. More often than not, this correlates to a fit guy with muscles. Is it a deal breaker if they're not? No. Muscles are indicative of hard work and perseverance, but if you can't put in the time at the gym it doesn't mean that you have bad genes. Personally, I tend to only date fit guys, but it's not because I'm only into the muscles. It's more of the personality that comes along with it, I love to work out and it would be nice to have a partner who also wants to be in top physical form. How you take care of yourself says a lot about you.

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  • All that matters in appearance for me is hygiene and not so obese that they will keel over in 30 seconds. The rest of the appearance is how he looks at me

  • It's not that important to me... I like a guy to be bigger than me in general so I feel protected, but that doesn't have to mean muscle-bound. I actually don't like six-packs, find them a bit of a turn off, I also don't mind a bit of a belly. As you say, healthy is important, but as long as it's not wobbling all over the place (lol), I don't actually mind a few extra pounds! :)

  • Not important,but nice. Although if a guy has big arms..no. doesn't do anything for me.

  • Well i´m not going to lie, I like guys toned and with muscle (not a lot of muscle though), but really for me is more important their personality and how they treat me, I mean if I am going to share my life with someone I want him to have a good personality because muscles eventually with time they will go :P and what will remain is what is inside, so yeah I like toned and with muscles but is not the main thing for me :)

  • It really depends on the girl I think, like I love a guy with big arms but not skinny, id prefer a belly to a mass of bones,

    and in saying that I don't want soem huge tubby guy that's like 100kg over wait lol.

    my friends likes toned and tall thin and dark, my sister, likes tubby, tall with nice arms.

    personality is the key but, you can't a have super hot boyfriend with a real cun* of a attitude toward you,

    hope it helps :)