Am I not good in bed?

so I took my girlfriend out for dinner tonight, and afterward we went for a swim. she has told me that she has always wanted to have sex in the shower. So after swimming I told her I was going to take a shower and that she should join me. She 6 feet tall and I am about 5'9. I could really "dot it" in the shower. Like I could get in but I don't know I guess either I am too short because I kept slippping out., or if my penis is too small. So she said we should just have sex outside the shower. I was fine with that. We then washed each other. I fingered her to get her to come before we had sex, finished the shower and dried off. Then when having sex I made her come again. She wanted me to change condoms because she said the one I was using was dry. So I got another one out and she stopped me. I guess because she came twice or whatever. She then was talking about how it is unfair that she came twice and I didn't get to. So she was going to give me a blowjob. I told her no, that it would taste like the condom(Those fire and ice ones) I then decided to just wash it off. she tried and she is OK with her mouth nothing really special. I told her to use a little bit of teeth. She was using none at first like always which is nice but I like just a litttle teeth. She had it right at first then used a lot of teeth which hurt me. She then started jerking me. That was good but in the middle of that I guess she was going to fast or something and she hit my balls. Which as everyone knows hurts like a mother f***er. Also we have been dating for 5 months and she has only made me come once. That was the first time we had sex about 3 weeks ago. (today was the second time...) so my question is: Do I just suck in bed or am I too small or something? I feel like I am sexually inadequate or something. The first time we had sex she clawed the f*** out of my back and sides, it took like 2 weeks for the marks to heal(she draw blood, but we didn't know that untill after I came which was after her) she had blood on her hands. So I mean from the sounds of it I can make her cum. I have made her come many many times in these 5 months. From oral and fingers. When she was in school before the summer break she would come over my place everyday accept weekends( this was before I met her parents so I was a secret) and I would make her come like 2 or 3 time a day for the most part. She is 18 now and I am 21. Our first time was my first time, but she has been with other guys before.
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Could you guys like give me a example or something xD I say this because I tried to tell her tonight, but like I said at first it was great but then she used too much teeth. I've had bllowjobs and handjobs before her so I know what I like from those. I've even done anal with a ex but she was the first girl I've had "actual sex" with. I love her and I'm not going to leave her,it's nice to actually get off from something other than me jerking myself everyonce in a while xD
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  • WELL YOU HAVE TO THINK IT THROUGH, ITS ONLY BEEN FIVE MONTHS THAT YALL HAVE BEEN TOGETHER AND IT TAKES TIME TO GET TO KNOW SOMEONE ALONE, EVEN MORE TIME TO LEARN WHAT THE OTHER LIKES OR LOVES SEXUALLY. IF SHE WAS YOUR FIRST AND YOU APPARENTLY PLEASING HER THEN ITS OBVIOUSLY NOT A MATTER OF YOUR SIZE OR IF YOU SUCK IN BED. YOU SLIPPED OUT, SO WHAT? PUT IT BACK IN, OR THATS JUST NOT A GOOD POSITION FOR YOU GUYS. HOWEVER AT LEAST YOU TRIED TO MAKE HER CURIOSITY A REALITY SO THAT WAS THOUGHTFUL OF YOU. HOWEV IN MY OPINION, IT SOUNDS LIKE YOUVE GOT THE CONCEPT ON WHAT PLEASES HER, BUT APPARENTLY SHE NEEDS MORE DIRECTION TO PLEASE YOU AS WELL. BE OPEN OR GIVING DIRECTION AND TAKING A LITTLE CONTROL IN BED WILL SHOW HER HOW YOU LIKE THINGS AND A CERTAIN WAY SHE COULD DO IT TO HER. MAKE A GAME OUT OF IT. YOU DO IT TO HER WHATEV YOU LIKE AND THEN SHE DOES IT TO YOU THE WAY YOU JUST DID ON HER. IM SURE YALL WILL GET IT. :D

    • CAPS.

    • Put it back in. lol some guys

    • WELL IT HAPPENS, AND IT SUCKS WHEN IT SLIPS OUT SO JUST PUT IT BACK IN LMBO :D

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  • Sounds like your doing a good job :) she is the one that isn't getting you off so that sucks...as for the shower, it just isn't for everyone, slippery and all they is not a good combo with all the movement lol...I think you need to sit down with her and tell her what you like/want. Tell her as your doing things. In order to have a good relationship with good sex etc. you need communication

    • Like guide her hand...and as she is blowing you tell her what you like lol, and when she does good let her know how good it feels, tell her if you don't like it..

    • Yea I haven't done that before tonight. I tried to tonight, but I wasn't as "verbal" as I should have been. I have thought about going without a condom because I seem to last longer than her, but I really don't want to simply because I don't want a baby, and I don't really trust the whole "pull out" method. Plus, she isn't on the pill so.

    • How about talking to her about getting on the pill? and Girls can have multiple orgasms, just keep going, she should love that. And work on the vocalizing it :) it really helps

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  • It really sounds like SHE is bad in bed.

  • I want to say that it seems like y'all lack sexual chemistry/compatibility, but perhaps you both lac communication skills. Seems like sex is all over the place for y'all. Y'all need to communicate your needs and desires and what you like/dislike to one another

    • *lack