Nervous about getting fingered?

Question

hey girls, I just wanted to know what it is like to be fingered for the first time, is it worth being nervous for, because I am, does it feel good bad? (my guy has never fingered anyone before) do you have any tips for me? help!

dtaylor31906 · Accepted Answer

tips

having him cut his fingernails but not the day of cause then the still might scratch so tell him that the day before or two days before

don't be nervous that's only gonna make it harder for you to enjoy it

start with one finger if he watches any p*rn chances are he is gonna try to jump in with two and if its your first time you won't enjoy two right away

tell him to start slow because unlike p*rn movies where the girl has been naked masturbating for an hour before the cameras start rolling you want be as wet

so try makikng out so you can get turned on a little and let the juces flow

dont be afraid to give him some direction while he is doing it because its his first time he probably won't be able to read your body like more experienced guys would be able to so tell him when to speed up slow down or if he should use another finger go deeper you know tell him what feels good

and don't be affraid to return the favor give him a handjob I mean think about he is gonna have a hardon because if you follow all this stuff then you should have been writhing in pleasure which turns guys on

ooo I forgot to tell you its okay to rub your clit while he is fingering you or tell him to do it

and the most important rule is you can't be scared to give directions cause if you don't he will be confused the art of pleasing a women is as simple as going down and ruining the mood without knowing what your dong

Delaisback · Accepted Answer

Well if he has never fingered anybody before chances are he'll do what he was on a p*rno and try putting as many fingers in as possible without any idea about clit stimulation.  Good luck surviving this.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I was kind of nervous because I wasn't comfortable with him. You have to be very aroused first, try making out a lot first, etc.I've only been fingered afew times. MY first wasn't comfortable because he talked me into it and I wasn't aroused enough. When you are, it should kind of happen naturally. The second time I got fingered I was very aroused and turned on and it felt really good. The guy also has to go gentle and make sure his nails aren't long. The first time the guy scratched me and I bled a tiny bit. IF you are aroused and v ery attracted to him it feels very good. IF you aren't comfrotable it sucks.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I've never been fingered either, and just the thaught is nerve wrecking to me... My last boyfriend wanted to finger me before having sex for the first time  which Made me nervous when he even told me...

Blobb · Answer

No biggie you'll be fine just have him clip his fingernails so they don't scratch you cause that might hurt. Otherwise it should feel pretty good depending on how good he is at it, but it definitely shouldn't feel bad.