Why does it feel weird after being fingered?
I'm a virgin and I let my boyfriend finger me but when he was doing it I felt lots of pressure and he was done I felt open I don't know how to explain that feeling and when I sat down it hurt and felt really sore ? Y did I feel that does it mean I'm not a virgin no more?
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Of course you're a virgin, being a virgin has nothing to do with the hymen or anything like that - it's to do with having sex. It's pretty ambiguous - but most people account themselves as a virgin until they've had full sex.
It's not common to feel a little stretched and sore after your early sexual experiences, the first time I got fingered by a guy I felt pretty similar - and it's just your hymen being stretched, and maybe broken a bit or completely, and your body adJusting to new things, your vagina getting used to things being in there. When a guy touches you it's different than say if you've touched yourself.
It's nothing to be worried about - maybe take a warm bath or some pain killer if the pain is bad, but really it should go away and get more comfortable.
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He probably tore your hymen, which is the ring of tissue that partially blocks the entrance to the vagina in a women, sometimes referred to 'popping your cherry', it's nothing to be worried about, although it may be slightly uncomfortable for you down there for a while. And to answer your other question, you are still a virgin, you don't loose your virginity from being fingered.