guys who do this do not respect you as a person and are only looking for a vagina to penetrate. that's all you are to them (dont take it personally). the moment you feel that a guy is pushy, cut him loose and ignore him. he won't change who he is or what he wants so why should you? he should look for a girl who is ready and willing and a girl that he doesn't have to push into sex. you guys are obviously not compatible so don't feel that you have to compromise your wishes for a guy who could care less about you anyway.
None of the guys I met are like that, maybe you're such unlucky in that you're meeting the wrong guys
I see it differently. In the first phase of our relationship, my partner was the one who invariably initiated sex... of course, it was, "Let's cuddle" or whatever... but always ended up in sex. It happened daily, and might have been a bit too much for me (I was young and had pressures of earning a living, stabilising my career, etc).
Now, years later, she would pretend as if sex doesn't exist. I feel a deep sense of rejection!
In a good relationship, nobody 'deserves' sex, but nobody works for it either. It is one of a variety of things that the partners willingly give each other.
But if you're talking about guys who aren't even dating and are just asking to hook up, well, that's like asking why telemarketers call or people send spam. Because they can, and once in a while, it works.
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