Question about swallowing cum/ blowjobs in general

[Anonymous]

So I really like doing this when I give my boyfriend a blowjob, but I feel like I'm kinda bad at it. like, I'll try to swallow as fast as I can but some usually ends up dribbling back out of my mouth down his shaft and down onto his inner thigh. it's like I can't keep my lips sealed all the way around and swallow and still keep going as fast/deep without potentially risking teeth contact at the same time. my mouth is kinda small lol. I'll usually lick it up after he's finished, so it's not like a cop-out to swallowing, I legitimately want to do it, it just usually doesn't work out all nice and clean like in p*rn lol. how do guys feel about this? is it the thought that counts or is my poor execution a turn off? if so what are some things I can do instead? Also, the last time I gave him a blowjob, he stayed pretty hard for a good 5-10ish minutes after he came... did I do something wrong? I kept licking/sucking gently because I didn't want to hurt him or make him uncomfortable. I honestly couldn't really tell when I should stop, which is weird because usually he's flaccid within a few minutes. it got a little less hard but was still pretty erect and I didn't think guys could be ready for round 2 so soon so I stopped because I wasn't sure. shoul di have handled that differently?

[ManFromHat]

Imagina a guy going down on you and then suddenly getting up and running to the bathroom to brush his teeth, or some cr@p like that. I'm pretty sure it would be a turn off. Anyway, you won't die if you swallow. These are proteins we are talking about here. If you know how to deep throat then you can basically just have it deep enough so it doesn't even touch your tongue - which means you wouldn't really feel the "incredibly bad taste" according to some women. Well - get your man to eat some pineapples and eat right, it can't be that bad. Once you start truly enjoying giving him head, you'll see that swallowing can connect you and your partner on a deeper level.

It actually tells him how much you care, and what you are ready to do for him. Once you see the happy look on his face and how much he adores you and how beautifully he may treat you after that, with love, care and of course - paying you back by going down on you. You'll be ready to swallow every day of the week.

The thing is that most girls don't know how to give head properly so they're not even thinking about swallowing and how it may even be nice. But once you're one of the few women that not only give amazing head - but also swallow, and LOVE to swallow - come on. That's a winner. If that guy ever goes of after another women, he has to be crazy. And if you think he'll think "low" of you for swallowing, you are hardly mistaken. Be sexual, get in touch with your senses. If you really don't want to swallow - that's probably because that guy is not the right one for you. But you'll see - once the real deal, a real man comes along, you'll be happy to swallow the fruits of the pleasure you're giving him (and yourself! - remember, right attitude is key). Check out Jack's Blowjob Lessons for more tips

[TadCurious]

I think you're worrying too much, and for no reason because I think you're doing great. The fact that a little of his cum comes out of your mouth isn't a big deal. For him, it's enough to know you're willing to take in his cum at all that counts. That's an enormously powerful bonding thing for a guy. And after he cums, you can give yourself a break. You don't have to worry about keeping on sucking and licking (even if he stays hard). But it's really unusual for a guy to stay hard very long after he cums. My main point is that you're not doing anything "wrong" at all. You sound like a really good oral lover to me.

[tinyclit]

You didn't do anything wrong, but I suppose you could be more aggressive. I myself hate mess, so I put my head back, open my mouth wide and have him cum into my mouth. All the cum goes into my mouth. I suck and lick his cock clean after I swallow. There's no mess to clean up at all. It's pretty darn good that way!

[Anonymous]

If he wants you to stop he will tell you, if you both want to keep going that's fine

[cun7n1nja]

You did fine, lol. Nothing wrong with a little mess. =D

[christian2724]

keep up the good work. World needs more girls like you

[debsman]

If ya don't want to miss a drop, when he starts to cum, just keep the head in your mouth and stroke him with your hand until he is done cuming. This way you can keep your lips wraped around it and no come will dribble out.

[DrLover]

You are awesome, you are so doing a great job any guy would be lucky to have you as his girlfriend:) guys some times will have an erection for a while after if they are turned on enough. It's all good

[Asker]

thanks, I appreciate you saying that. I just feel bad seeing him put his pants back on still hard lol, it makes me feel like I've inconvenienced him or failed epically at satisfying him somehow? I guess I was way of on that assumption.

[lv4lv]

Sounds great, really. Keep at it.

To answer the question about round two, some guys actually have a really low, or no 'cool off' period for the first or second time. It's very rare but there are guys out there that can hit up round two right off of round one.

[Anonymous]

just relax your mouth more and just keep the head in your mouth and then you won,t have trouble swallowing him or try this take him in your mouth as deep as you can take him and let him come and you won,t lose some of it or you can try this one don,t try to swallowing so fast just let it sit in your mouth and swallow a little at a time good luck

[Anonymous]

I havn't had TOO much experience... But from ones I had I have a little knowledge. First off, its typical for him to stay hard. I never went soft right away. Typically, after one cums the job is done, at least in my experience. And with your technique, if he is about to climax, suck on the tip rather than going to deep. It gives more room in your mouth to swallow. I don't think its too easy to displease a guy, so worrying less might be in order.

[Asker]

So like if it was you how long would you want a girl to still be touching you after you already finished... or is there ever a point where you'd want her to stop lol? I guess it doesn't matter that much, I've just read a few things on here where guys say there's a point where it's too sensitive/doesn't really feel good anymore.