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Girls, why is a guy being virgin such a huge turn off for you?

Just curious. Guys don't really care whether the girl is a virgin or not, but a lot of girls on the other hand get quickly turned off once they know a guy is a virgin. Why does the fact that he's never had sex before makes you completely forget how much you liked the guy before knowing that 1 particular fact? I mean even virgin girls get turned off by virgin guys. Sure, experience is important I guess but once virgin guys start to have sex they will pick it up. I don't know why most girls consider guys being virgins as a deal breaker. Majority of the guys care less about a girl's virginity, hell a lot of guys actually love it if the girl they like is a virgin. Being in my mid 20's and a virgin, it feels like I've lost all shot in finding a girl just because I'm still a virgin.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • yeah it's not a turn off.

    you just have to find a girl who cares about your "whole package" and not just judge you on that small part.

    You have to make her laugh, don't even bring it up that you are a virgin, get her comfortable with you and fall in love with you. Then go ahead and take it to the next level.

    Maybe watch some p*rn to get use to how it is done.

    Well as for me, I was a virgin at 24 and my guy just kind of did it for me but he talked about his ex all the time like their sex life was all that mattered and it annoyed me forever. I still give him a hard time about it now... like it was a total disrespect to me and my person so you won't have that problem with your future girl at least! Some guys who are experienced are way too cocky and irrogant is what I'm saying. Just be a nice person, she'll fall in love with you for what is inside your heart. Good luck

  • Nonononono and no it is not a turn off.

    For me, I'd rather stick to the virgin guy (or at least those who get the least sex) because I know they haven't been going off sleeping with a lot of women (or men, though I'm not against guy to guy relationships here. I don't mind yaoi and yuri, btw) and it saves me the worry of them catching a disease, or them being a perv who use women only for sexual purposes.

    Also, being a virgin because you're saving it for a very special someone (e.g. a very special girl or your wife-to-be), is great. Not a lot of guys who are like that today. :)

  • It's not a turn off to me at all. Yeah, he's gonna be less experienced and he probably won't give me the best f*** of my life the first time but he can be taught. It could actually be a turn on, there's something about being the first girl ever to give him that kind of pleasure that's pretty hot.

Most Helpful Guys

  • in fact it depends on the country you live in because each country have different customs , I'm a virgin and most of the guys here in my country are virgins as well same for girls , we do masturbate but as I told most of us girls and guys don't have sex til marriage , and it's a turn off for both of us(girls and guys) if we knew that this girl or that guy had sex before getting marriage , if you asked me am I happy about it ? I would tell yeah it dosn't feel that bad :)

    I would do it if it was a true love which seems on the right way to get married :)

    peace :-)

  • When I lost my virginity at 15, all I was scared about was my package 14cm isn't big... but lucky I met a girl that was a virgin and didn't care and we were both happy. :) But being an non-experience one is gay, I haven't had much sex with girls because I don't use them for that type.. But I did have this one girl who was that experience, she was 14 and had sex 15 times... :\

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • It's not a turn off at all for me. I think most girls would agree, really. Being a virgin doesn't make you weird. Don't give up, you will find a girl!

  • it's not a turn-off to me.I find innocence adorable.

  • it's not...

    the only thing that could be an issue is confidence. if a guy is inexperienced and really unconfident about it, then it can make things really awkward. but confidence can make up for lack of experience pretty easily.

  • Well for me i like a guy thats had a lot of experience because it seems manly to me. i think its in our bioloy. men are genetically programmed to try to pass on as much of their genetics as possible whil women are easily susceptible of getting pregnant. NOt only that but the woman is the one who carries the baby for nine months and is usually the one taking care of I don't know why its just genetics but dont feel bad if you are a virgin there are girls out there who might prefer it! Every girl is different but generally speaking thats my take on it hope this helps!

    • I tend to be more attracted to slutty women. I honestly don't know why. It just is. I have no way of knowing that until we are naked together anyways.

  • its not..

  • It's not a turn off. I think it's sweet. Just saying.

  • It's not a turn off.

  • it's not a turn-off at all, imo.

  • It's not that you are a virgin. It's that you are mid 20's and still a virgin.

    • that's not a turn-off in the least.

    • Well when he goes to "eat you out" and he bites you down there, don't say it's not a turn-off.

    • LOL. people make mistakes. don't be so harsh.

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  • I was 24 when I lost mine. Just be patient, get a girl to love you for you, and be confident, not insecure about your virginity. Girls dig that.

  • i think its more a turn off to be timid around women then actually being a virgin

  • I would like to know too...

    Why get someone used instead of brand new?

  • Because they want experience.

  • it's not a turn off to me.

  • It has nothing to do with him being a virgin. It has everything to do with the fact that he is undesirable. Women fuck good-looking, smart, athletic, hot guys, if they have money. Women don't fuck, stupid, broke, ugly and fat guys. Therefore, they are the virgins. Average guys almost never get pussy unless the girl is a fat slut because even average girls don't fuck average guys.

  • Ok, I am 19 and I'm also a virgin. Here is what I am going to do if asked by a girl about my sexual experience. Lie, I'm going to look her right in the eye and lie through my teeth. There is no way she can find out anyway and if someone thinks less of you after hearing the truth, they definitely deserve to be lied to. It's what I'm going to do and I recommend you do the same.

  • I like it better when a guy is a virgin honestly ... I still am and its good to know that your as experienced as he is just in case you ever do decide he is the one and you don't have to worry about him having any of the gross diseases

  • Because he doesn't know what he's doing

    • Poor baby You deserved to be used as an object

  • It's not a turn off...AT ALL. It's a turn on, actually. For one thing, I'm a virgin, and I do place value on virginity. That tells me that girls are probably more than sex objects to you. Plus, I would know for sure that you won't give some disease.

  • Actually, a lot of guys DO care about a girls virginity. They want her to be one. Even non virgin guys want a virgin girl. The opposite standard is thus held to men.

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