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Braless in public - yes or no?

Here's the thing, essentially a fetish of mine is for my girlfriend to go out in public braless with me. Its a huge turn on.

My latest girlfriend who I have been with for 6 months I think is 'the one' but she won't go out braless, bugger!

Heres a pic which is basically a match for her body: link

I know her breasts are very small (much smaller than I'm used to) but I think her body is stunning.

Does she have any need to be self concious? Am I missing something here? Please let me know what you think of it all. Thanks
She can pull anything off with that body, even braless!
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  • Well, the purpose of a bra isn't just for support. It also serves to provide some padding between the nipples and the shirt (to help with chafing and to prevent people from seeing your nipples, especially if you get THOs).

    I totally understand that it can be really sexy to see a girl in public without a bra, but reasons why she might not want to:

    1. It's fine to let your boyfriend see your nipples, but you might not want everyone around to be able to see them; have random guys gawking at you, etc.

    2. There's a good chance that some people will judge her negatively if they notice that she's in public without a bra.

    3. She might just feel uncomfortable without the extra material (chafing, or not used to it).

  • I went braless in public for the first time last week. I went out and It actually felt very liberating. I used to have insecurities with my small breasts, but let me turn the tables around and not hide them under a padded bra. I have a slender body and it works for me. I'm starting to become more comfortable with them..i don't think people could tell that I was braless unless they see pictures. but I'm planning on going to the mall braless too.. hell when I go grocery shopping. why should I wear one if I don't need one? I should take advantage of this, instead of worry whether a guy will like my body or not. anyway. I'm glad you told her.

    • Thats cool and obviously very horny too. Did you make it to the mall braless in the end?

    • i did lol, I know people could notice hehe...because theyre perky and pointing out but whatever. I'm comfortable with my body..well starting to be. I only wear bras at work.

    • What ever your feels better to you

  • Girls like her are like, inspirational for us small breasted ladies.

    She still looks great and shows off her body, regardless of her breast size.

    If your girlfriend is like her, then your a lucky man :)

    • well its not like you are not pulling if off either, your photos look like you know how to show off your body too.

    • i'm proud of what I got. Wouldn't matter if I was fatter, skinner, had bigger or smaller boobs.

    • Be proud of those girls , I love it when my wife goes without her bra !! Very proud of her , she's my wife and I support her when she don't want to wear them.

Most Helpful Guys

  • I don't know it'd depend on what else she wore too. If it's something so loose as one girl I know wears (she wears kinda more guy clothes tbh) then it'd be really easy to see her breasts even if you're not trying to look so a bra would be good if you don't want her showing off her breasts to everyone or if she doesn't want to show them off. Also, from what I can tell a bra can be great depending on their breast size because it'll help keep them from moving really annoying when they're trying to do something. But whatever, in the end let it be her choice. If she wants to, so be it.

  • I'm sorry dude it's not up to you it's up to her if she is comfortable with it then she'll do it if she is not comfortable with it then she won't do it so I'm saying is don't force her and talk with her about each others turn on and turn offs but discuss it with each other if one person don't want to do it then don't force it and respect her wish and respect her space and have fun you two

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  • I personally would wear a bra when going out in public,it hurts my boobs when I don't no matter if I'm walking,even when sleeping I can't go without a bra because it hurts when I move around even just a little.It also is a self conscious thing for me to as well,I don't want no one to see my nipples going through my shirt.Maybe she doesn't feel comfortable in doing that so don't force her! It probably would feel weird not wearing one.

  • I didn't even look at the link you posted...don't need to. If your girlfriend doesn't feel comfortable going braless, then it's her decision. Finally answer. Not yours. Now, if you don't want to wear a bra in public, that's fine. Your choice. But don't try to impose your likes/dislikes/fetishes on her.

  • Yep I do it all the time

  • k, I LOVE it when girls do this. but I hate it when they have weird shaped boobs, because it just looks stupid. so it really depends

    • I happen to like weird shaped boobs, you hush your mouth. :D

    • hahaha! I'm not a fan of seeing droopy boobs in tank tops, call me crazy

  • yea, she doesn't 'need' to wear a bra, imo. but I guess it's her personal preference to wear it.

  • braless!

  • It's her choice.

    • I agree, it is her choice

  • With boobs as small as hers, it shouldn't be that big a deal to go outside without one, but personally, even if mine were that small, I'd probably still wear one in public. I guess you just get so accustomed to wearing one, it doesn't feel right going out in public without one.

  • i don't like going with out a bra its not because I don't feel comfortable with my body with out one its the fact the it feels weird not wearing one. if that makes sense to you

  • She doesn't need a bra at any time.

  • she has tiny boobs so it's OK for her to go in public braless.

    • It don't matter, large or small ! As long as she is ok with it , or without it. My wife an I prefer her not to wearing one, because she is feels better more natural without one.

  • She could go braless since she doesn't exactly have any boobs so I don't think it would matter but if she said no she means no

  • Her choice.
    My girlfriend go out braless mostly by own choice and I appreciated.

  • It's her choice , going with or without !! Being a guy I always love it when my wife don't wear a bra

  • She has no need for a bra as everyone else is saying.

  • I think that it is her choice, and you aren't being very considerate by trying to demand that she go braless when she tells you that she doesn't want to.

    No means no.

  • she could go braless if she wanted 2 but she already said no so drop it

  • Yes braless in that situation is fine.

  • so she's flat chested. yes it's fine

  • have you seen the material that goes into women's clothing? while women should not care so much about breast size, some women do need to be more modest...I think the reason you want her to go bra-less is to see her nipples.

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