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Why does my boyfriend love being slapped by me?

Hi.. I've been noticing this for a while, my boyfriend loves being hit by me every time we get intimate. He asks me to slap him hard on his cheeks or bite him anywhere. He gets turned on all the more when I do it. He is my first boyfriend and I don't know if there are other guys out there who enjoy being slapped. I don't have a problem giving him love-bites but I don't like slapping him hard. Is this strange request of his normal..? Why does he get turned on by a tight slap? Are there any other guys out there who like being slapped when you are getting intimate with a girl?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Well, since you asked ...

    I like my wife to slap my penis around during foreplay, or during a handjob. I'd asked her to do it in the past, and she'd done it really lightly, and with no enthusiasm. Fairly recently, I asked her when she'd had a BAD day and she slapped it hard, and I think she was stunned I was fine with it, so she slapped it around more. To be honest, maybe it was a little more then I would have liked, but she got really into it, which turned me on.

    I remember reading a book a looooong time ago which described a couple who were about to have sex, and the female character reached down and slapped his penis 'to check how hard it was'. It turned me on at the time, and I guess it stayed with me.

    I'd actually like to slap her around, but she's not into it. Oh well ;)

    • Neither am I into slapping. I hate myself for slapping him..cant bring myself to do it when he looks at me with those amazing eyes full of love and affection

    • Don't hate yourself, he enjoys it. First of all, being slapped is really not that painful. It stings a little, but that can make the pleasure feel better in contrast, like a little salt offsetting sugar. Second it probably fires up his adrenaline and makes him more amped up.

    • I loved being slapped on the dick by my ex. I can't explain it. It just one of those things..

  • A lot of both guys and girls enjoy this sort of play leading up to intimacy. Most, I would say, enjoy it once they have experienced it once or twice and aren't surprised.

    Nothing abnormal about it, don't worry! Ask him to do the same for you..you'll probably like it.

    • I don't think I'd ever be turned on by somebody slapping me hard.. its kinda humiliating to get slapped

    • Well, not HARD..this is in fun! Still, hard enough to sting usually, for most people it's a turn on. Once you get the idea..I know it's strange the first time someone tries it with you.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I know some guys that like being slapped around or even yelled at before sex. Some are guy friends that told me and then I had two boyfriends that liked it. They never told me but I figured it out. They would pick arguments because I have a bit of a temper sometimes. I would get upset and maybe even yell or slap and then I would notice that they were turned on. Then I would get turned on. One of them grabbed my neck and lets just say that story was written.

    • I say things to my woman that stirs her up. One time she told me she probably wouldn't do it in public because it would make a scene. That assertion went out the window when she gave me a hard painful slap for looking at and talking about other women in a Menards. And at a mall. And in a parking lot. And at a bar. I thinks it the joy of knowing you can get under her skin. The slap is just instinct for some women so thats usually the consequence.

  • There are a lot of things that are normal while not very spoken of aspects of sex, its normal for him to like a slight sting of pain to intensify his pleasure, even girls like light-hard slaps on the butt or face. His request can be compared to a girl/boy wanting their hair pulled or held during sex

    • *Nods in approval*

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  • He's kinky. We all are in our own ways.

  • That is not my "thing"but I don't think it's weird...he likes a little bit of femdom...or you may find out he likes a lot of femdom...

  • I remember my first slap by a girl.. its little bit painful but it also have some happiness. After that tight slap I have lose my braveness to girls 😢

  • yes it turns me on to be slapped around by my woman during intercourse. the closer to climax the harder i like it. i dont know why but being beat up by a woman then made to service her. ismy biggest fantasy almost

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