I had sex with boyfriend after 1 month of dating and it is really good. Can too much sex help or hurt?

[Girlygirl77]

I have been dating my boyfriend for two months now and we had sex about half way into it. We get along really well (better than any relationship I've had before). The sex is really good -quite intense. Last night we did it 2x in 1.5hrs (he finished both times!). But we did play scrabble for a few hours before the sex began. We are mentally on same level and go on proper dates. We see each other 3x a week, he pays for everything and I offer often, we are in touch every day (call each other day but at least texts each day). I am interested in this as a long-term relationship and it feels really good and easy right now. I find that the sex is pretty unihibited and he e.g. uses his mouth on me everywhere. He really loves my boday. If the sex is intense, does that hurt or help the chances of that from a man's view?

[ekspain]

well if he loves your boday, that's a plus. I have a similar situation with my girlfriend. The sex is on a whole other, spiritual plateaux that I've never previously experienced. Mentally we understand each other on a psychic level.

Great sex, as long as it is love based, creates intimacy, and therefore can never be bad for a relationship. I find that it actually strengthens our bond. When the sex is great, everything else seems to fall into place. But it certainly helps when the couple are on the same mental wavelength.

theres an interesting philosophy of lovemaking called Karezza- or maybe its a practice-

The idea is essentially that touch is sacred. It can transmit love. Keep this in mind during your lovemaking sessions, and your love for each other will only grow.

[answerguy]

I don't think it helps or hurts. That just seems to be the nature of your relationship, and so long as that is what is both keeping you happy and together then you're fine. If it gets to the point where that changes communicate it, and see how well you guys react to change together, that's the measure of a good relationship.

[beachtexasgirl89]

Given your age, I don't think you did this too quickly. I have to say it's important, however, to develop the relationship outside of the bedroom. Sex is awesome and sometimes it gives couples a reason to work through difficult times, but it's important to do other things. This sounds like a great relationship.just make sure not to be blinded by sex. I recently got out of a relationship with a guy who wasn't right for me. I would have gotten out a lot sooner if the sex hadn't been so good and frequent.

[ArtyC]

It sounds to me like you have a great relationship. You communicate, you have a good time when you go out, and bonus; the sex is good. I'm pretty sure his point of view is the same. Don't over think this; doing that can hurt thing's, because you will feel sub conscious every time your together. Enjoy.