Girls - Do you prefer giving handjobs or blowjobs? Why/Why not?

[citrush2o]

Do you prefer giving handjobs or blowjobs? Why one vs. the other? How to you like to go about giving the one you like best?

[Anonymous]

I like giving blowjobs more because I feel more skilled and in control because I'm doing something he can't do for himself. he also seems to enjoy these more, which turns me on a lot. I'm much more confident which makes me feel sexy and it all sort of snowballs from there. but it's not always a clear preference. blowjobs have their downsides too. if I'm teasing him a lot and making it last a long time, my jaw will hurt. it's more difficult to get into a position where I can easily see his face, and sometimes I get a little too into it and accidentally gag myself.

i don't like giving handjobs as much because I feel like I'm not good at it, that he'd rather just do it himself. BUT I am very much turned on by being able to look in his eyes and also watch him cum. I get so turned on by the thought of guys masturbating too, so I really like it if he puts his hand over mine and gets into it. huge turn on. it feels more intimate while a blowjob kinda makes me feel a little slutty.

so I guess if I had to I'd pick blowjobs, but honestly both are good for different kinds of love making etc

[citrush2o]

Thanks for the clarification! As stated bellow, I just can't seem to get off from a bj but do from handjobs just fine. Makes me feel a little incapable. Still, it's nice to know the other feels more intimate, which is far better to me the just getting turned on :)

[Opinion Owner]

So do you think you could get off with bjs if the girl used different/better technique or do you just flat out not enjoy it? if you find a girl who sees that as a challenge I think youd be able to cum. if its something you want to happen, speak up! I have this problem with getting fingered, it feels great but no climax. once I told my boyfriend he's like on a mission to make me cum, which is cool. hasn't happened yet but he's trying and sometimes it's the thought that counts

[citrush2o]

It may be that I just haven't been with a girl who tries anything other than moving her head up and down haha. But I'm it's just as much my fault for not speaking up. I'm sure if she was alright with it that giving here a hint here and there would definitely help. And yes, I totally love how they feel! Haha I'd have to be crazy not to. Do most girls really find it exciting to challenge themselves to make their man cum?

[Opinion Owner]

I know I enjoy the challenge. It's not much of a challenge anymore, but the first time was. it took him over an hour to come because I had no clue what I was doing and he was nervous and I probably wasn't very good lol... definitely felt so accomplished when he finally came though. I was determined to be better at it the next time. Now its more about trying keep things interesting

[nothingtosee]

That was hot! However, I bet I could teach you how to give the ultimate handjob! Me, I prefer handjobs because I like watching my cock squirt cum. Plus, I can talk to her and talk about her sexual fantasies. Plus, I love it when she will slow down and stroke me softer as I'm about to cum. To me, it makes for a more intense orgasm.

[Anonymous]

For me I think it depends on the day -- I don't really prefer one over the other per se. I do find that blowjobs are more fun though, since it makes me feel more in control (and in the end more accomplished for some reason).

[Butterfly_kisses09]

Blowjobs. They're more fun:)

[citrush2o]

Thanks for the imput! How you do like to give them if you don't mind my asking? Trying to find new suggestions for future.

[Butterfly_kisses09]

Idk, I like stroking him while I'm sucking on the head. I deep throat some. My guy likes his balls rubbed so I do that too. I lick it up and down. I just have fun with it. Lol

[citrush2o]

Sounds like you hit all the right buttons lol. I've just never been able to get off from a bj and it makes me wonder why?

[Butterfly_kisses09]

Wow that must suck (no pun intended)

[citrush2o]

Not so much, since it tents to lead to other things. It's just always surprised me since I get off on a handjob fine : /

[KimmyB]

Blowjobs, because they're easier to give lol :o)

[defytraditiongirl]

Blowjobs all the way, lol

[HateBeingSingleAspie]

i like the answers here, haha

[AnitaMarie]

I prefer giving blow jobs. I think they are a better experience for the guy and me.

[isadann]

i like blow jobs better cause with hand jobs gets my hands tired fast, and the thing about blow jobs makes me feel sexy!

[Anonymous]

I take pleasure from giving pleasure so I like them both but blowjob much better.

[Anonymous]

Handjobs. Blowjobs make me gag and hurt my jaw and are generally uncomfortable.

[Anonymous]

I prefer giving hand jobs. I just find giving blow jobs makes me sick to my stomach. May sound weird but it does.