I am in the EXACT same position as you but it's only been 2 months! Same age too. Things moved very fast with us though and he was basically staying over every other night after 2ish weeks. Does your guy play a sport by any chance? I'm beginning to wonder if the combination of low testosterone with releasing the endorphins while playing a sport is the reason for the lack of friskiness. I've never had a guy be like this before but all the guys I've dated have been douche bags so it really makes ya wonder if you should be picking your battles and let this go, or if you have a legitimate concern. I think about the future and how most long term couples don't have tonssss of sex (generally speaking) and just reason that we're just there faster cuz we're so close, but that only helps until I'm frustrated as he's asleep spooning me and I'm ready to go. Wish I could give more advice but it's nice to know that I'm not alone, hope that'll help you too!
0 0 0 1They say that after around 6months the love buzz chemical stops working. That could be what's happened? I think a lot of girls have high sex drives I certainly have a higher one then my boyfriend. Perhaps just let him know but be carefull about bringing it up. Guys tend to get very defensive about their sex drives because its seen as being linked to their masculinity. Perhapssstart by talking about what he likes about cuddling..etc then move the conversation into why you like sex. He seemms like a soft emotional type so mayne try let him see the emo side of sex.
0 1 0 0This is not normal for a 26 year old male. He needs to see a therapist & a doctor. Maybe the testosterone isn't the only answer. It could be more. You should have to feel this way & resentment will build up & eventually you two will split up.
You don't want to start feeling like roommates or buddies either.
You both will never have the same sex drive, but this is totally off the mark. You are both too young to settle for this.0 1 0 1
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it's not weird. I had a female friend who was always hornier than I was. and then, there were times I was horny and she wasn't. at least you're honest. :)
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