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Trouble finding and inserting penis into vigina

Me and my girlfriend have just started experimenting with sexual intercourse. We have only tried twice so far. The first time, I had the most... Show More

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  • You should let her guide you in. She knows where the spot is and can easily guide it herself. She just has to insert the tip and you can take it from there. Also, you can do in a different position, like from behind or with her on top. Don't know if you're willing to be that adventurous so soon, but it's worth a shot.Happy hunting!

What Girls Said 6

  • Also you might want to learn how to spell it! LOL

    • Remember the female poster who talked about her "virginia"? If you can't spell it, then you shouldn't be using it :)

    • How True that is, and even some that can spell it shouldn't be using it!!! LOL

  • Just let her put it in.

  • Use your finger to guide it in and at first go in slowly. My first time the guy just shoved it in and it hurt alot.

  • Use your fingers to mark the spot. then insert :)

  • nothing hotter then having your woman help you out! ;)

What Guys Said 6

  • look, its always gonna be hard finding it in yourself unless uve loosen her up with abt 3 fingers for a whilethe easiest way is to let her hold it and lead ur way, seriously!

  • I think everyone was the same first time. You will get used to it.Like the other guys said, either get the girl to do it for you (I get her to do it sometimes and I'm very experienced) or use your fingers to find the entrance. It will be at the bottom of the vagina.You'll be rubbing her at the same time, so it's stimulating her just as much and won't be so much hassle.Don't get frustrated over it. It will just turn both of you off.

  • Tell her to shave next time, jesus.

    • Funny.

    • I'm here to please lady.

  • Sometimes it just takes a little practice on both =your parts; also, make sure there’s sufficient foreplay and warming up, and don’t feel you have to rush into things. On another note, keep your tool in good health; regular use of a first class penis health cream (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil) helps maintain general penis health. Good luck!

  • Had that problem before. I thought it was me but the reason was that she was too tight. My penis could not fit in. I relaxed her muscles with my fingers (3 should be fine) and it was easy after that. If you still have that problem best position to use is, her laying on her back on the bed or the table and you standing up. Open her legs widely and you can see everything! :)

  • Use your fingers to find it, mark the spot, then put the penis in.

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