How should I feel if my ex wants to try a MMF Threesome?

[ncsquirll99]

This may need some updating but basically my ex (of about a month) told me about a fantasy she NEVER told me about. We dated for a year and a half and she said that she had had a MMF fantasy for almost 2 years now but never told me. The guy is a good friend of mine but we don't hang out that much now. I am just really confused. Honestly I look at her as kinda a whore now. please don't blow up with comments about that last statement let me explain - I was her first and so far her only and she always talked about how special a partner should be and now it just seems so wrong for her. I also don't know what she would expect to do.. she "sucks" at giving bjs and hates doing it.. she almost never did. She likes the thought of anal but can never actually do it because it ends up hurting. And I just don't know what she plans on doing. -also as an aside I am semi okay with MFF 3somes. (note I said semi).. but this is because everyone can interact... in a MMF the girl is the one who gets all the attention which just makes me see it as being bad. I feel like she is being so used and I hate the thought.. please do not comment on that aspect.. I know it may be hypocritical but I have my reasons.. just trust me. ..

[SixStringSeal]

If the two guys she's doing it with aren't even just a little bit bisexual then yea, it seems like just double teaming a chick which is not a true threesome.

But honestly if getting trained by multiple dudes gets her off then it's whatever. I've seen so many guys into way worse things.

[marinesurfer69]

Go for it... honestly most girls get turned on by the whore feeling. But that doesn't make them a whore.

[Brando]

So are you asking if you should do it or not?

[ncsquirll99]

Idk what I'm asking.. just does it seem whorish? And yea - should i?

[Brando]

I don't think it's whorish, just because it's not my place to judge. I see a girl as a whore if she uses sex for attention, if she has no respect for herself, things like that. If a girl likes sex or has fantasies, then I don't think that makes her a whore. As for if you should do it or not, it seems like you're kind of still thinking about her so it might not be a good idea. But if you can separate it and see it as sex only, then if I were you I could consider it.

[Brando]

Like you said, the girl gets all the attention. That's kind of the point of a MMF unless you're bisexual. So that also means that you and the other guy shouldn't have awkward moments unless you feel you'd be uncomfortable with another guy's d*** 2 inches away from yours. But like I said, I'm not sure how you feel about your ex and I don't know how it would end if you still think about her in some way or another.

[CandyCaneZoe]

Excited. They're a lot of fun

[JennieF]

It sounds hot.

[6twiztid6mindz6]

So hott