My girlfriend's mother libido is driving me crazy, advice?

[Anonymous]

It has been going on for about a week since my girlfriend's mother started to act a little weird. I sleep at my girlfriend's from time to time and she still lives with her mother. E.g. yesterday at dinner. We three were having a nice dinner, her mother cooked us an incredibly good venison stew, we had red wine as well. That dinner was just awesome. I was sitting at the end part of the table whereas my girlfriend and her mother were sitting one on the left and one on the right. Then after dinner we had a conversation about how my girlfriend and I wanna get an apartment. In the middle of the conversation, my girlfriend's mother placed her naked feet on my crotch and started stroking it. Of course I got hard in an instant which turned us both on as far as I was able to judge. I just didn't know what to do in that moment. About three minutes later I stood up and went to the toilet. My girlfriend's mother is in her early 40s so I think her libido is quite high. I mean she is really hot but she is the mother of the girl I love. So should I tell my girlfriend, should I just let it go, or should I actually just sleep with her mother once and tell her (mother) it was just a fling.

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

If you really honestly truthfully love your girlfriend - you shouldn't even be considering sleeping with her mother.

For one, that's cheating, and probably the most sleeziest, reckless, completely f***ed up circumstance to do it in.

Second, that's her mother; how would you feel if your best friend f***ed your mom? Because that's how she's gonna feel if you do hat.

Third of all - " it was just a fling." What a piece of sh*t way to justify that. Now your gonna p*ss her off, she'll probably tell her daughter, then she's mad at her mom and you, someone might get pregnant - now it's some Jerry Springer sh*t.

Besides the obvious chaos that will ensue, how can you honestly smile in your girlfriends face after doing something so incredibly deceitful behind her back? Keep in mind you do " love her" as you say.

I understand her mom is probably pretty attractive, and it's natural as a male for you to be considering the possibilities of coupling with her - but keep in mind the potential consequences of the situation.

The best thing you can do, is ignore the mother's advances, tell the mom what's she doing isn't okay, and that she shouldn't be doing this to her daughter, and that your with her daughter. If she keeps being persistent, tell your girlfriend.

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

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[Eat_Sleep_Paint_Love]

I think you should talk to your girlfriend about it. If you let it go she's probably just going to keep coming on to you. I definitely wouldn't suggest sleeping with her. As a girl I'd be pretty pissed if I found out my boyfriend slept with my mom. Maybe she can talk to her mom, though, just lay down the line and say "Mom, this is MY boyfriend and you need to keep your hormones in check".

[EverythingReal]

I didn't know this actually happens in real life. But that's not the point.

You should tell your girlfriend, who may not believe you. And not have sex with her mother. If you love your girlfriend enough that you would want to live with her, you would ignore her mother's attraction towards you.

[mickey45]

I like stew, and can't cook. I wouldn't say a thing. But I would just take as a compliment and just don't sleep with her. It may have just been the wine and she was extra horny. Don't destroy your relationship or your girlfriends relationship with her mom over one incident. Just don't be alone with her and sit a little farther away from her at the dinner table. It was wrong of her, but it may never happen again. From a man that has fallen into adultry--it is a horrible feeling to hurt someone. It will haunt you for the rest of your ife if you do that. if you feel tempted just go into the bath room and beat that thing like it owes you money- but don't cross that line--there will never be any forgiveness from the woman you claim to love

[ihatework]

yeah dude, tell her, that'll go over really good. if you don't want to lose this girl then you need to put an end to the madness with her mom and hope that info never gets out.

[missjustina]

This is awkward.. and kinda sick.

[Habakkuk]

definitely not the last one, dear god..

[Shaun]

I think you should finish these stories before submitting them.

[Jesterface195]

Hahahahaha oh man this is kinda what happened to me awhile ago when I was 18, f*** it dude she'll teach you sh*t you never thought was possible

[AmberAmazes]

Tell your girlfriend ,like now.

[Emily_jean]

That’ll completely ruin her relationship with her mother, I suggest you don’t make any moves on her.

[Anonymous]

And that's the problem when people start mixing reality with fantasy!

[Anonymous]

Ironically, I fantasize about this very thing.

[Anonymous]

She's sitting on your side and is able to reach your crotch with her foot? What is she, a contortionist?

[Anonymous]

If you want to be honest -- don't tell your girlfriend, and don't take the fling anyway further with her mom! Decide what you want, and stick to it!