Men (27+ only pls) what do you prefer? Cunnilingus, t*t-sucking, face-sitting or all of the above?

Apologies for the inane question but I'm so sick of seeing "do girls prefer tit job or blow job?" (like they're the only thing we could possibly enjoy). So, men only please with solid sexual experience either married or partnered-up at some point in the recent past. I'm looking to gauge whether men's taste and preferences change as they age. So, also comment on acts you did not enjoy as an adolescent but can't get enough of now, you get the picture right? If you're a casual fling-man with no relationship experience please do not bother to answer I don't want to hear from people with no first-hand experience, thank you.
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Ok, I missed out anal but I think there's no need to add it as it's a given that most men like and crave it, so feel free to elaborate. Any Anon users will be presumed under the age of 27 there's no need to be anon - we don't know each other and will never meet so don't be shy!
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  • Okay, I'm married, mid 30s.

    I'd probably put tit sucking last, though I like it. My wife before kids didn't seem to enjoy it that much. I like breasts but I'm more of an ass/leg guy. I've met a few women though not been with them who could orgasm from breast play, I'd be more into it if she was that into it. My wife now is more sensitve, but also gets wierded out sometimes by breast stim, so I offer it but don't push.

    Cunnilingus, I enjoy a lot. In some ways, I think I enjoy more then her. I like pussy! She likes the sensation, but seems to find orgasming that way much less satisfying then sex, she'll try to get away if I get her close to orgasming, she wants me to penetrate her first.

    She's never really sat on my face, but to a point, I think I'd like it. I try to manhandle her a bit during oral, I think she doesn't like it when I'm just down there passively, so I move her legs around, grab her torso, and pick her hips up off the bed while I'm eating her out.

    I've given her cunnilingus in a doggy style position. I liked that a lot, I think she felt exposed, which is of course the point ...

    She won't do anal. Maybe she will one day, but I'm doubtful. I hope my marriage lasts, but if not, I'm finding a girl, I don't care how ugly she is, who will do tons of anal and the poor thing will suffer through my years of frustration. I'm an ass man, asses turn me on, I like the way women's a**holes look, I'd like the tightness and I enjoy being a bit dominant in bed. I guess that elaborates on why I want it. My favorite position for vaginal is with my wife lying flat on her stomach and me penetrating her from behind/above, but you can guess which hole I'd rather be in.

    Have my tastes changed over the years? I want anal much more now ... when I was growing up, it wasn't as talked about, and I didn't think about it much.

    What's changed more for me is that I better understand now what I want during sex - a hot sexual connection with an engaged partner. Getting an orgasm is easy on my own, and yes, some acts feel a little better, but that's not the real point - its sharing sexuality, feeling desired in return from someone I desire, having that part of myself welcomed and appreciated. I'd rather jerk off while my wife looked on getting wet then have sex where she was waiting for it to end so she could sleep. I didn't understand that when I was younger, or at least couldn't have expressed it.

    • this is a fkn great answer! thanks for putting thought and detail into it, much appreciated. you say you're dominant and that's maybe why you love anal - I'm not sure the two are connected though, my man loves it too but he's SO not a dom, lol. I'm more the dom than him, tell me if you don't mind, would you let your wife f*** your arse with a dildo or strap-on? I'll be honest I love a bit of anal too but I believe if you want to give - you have to be prepared to receive too...

    • The question you asked is 'would you let her'. The answer is yes. I would let her. The idea doesn't turn me on. I suspect with the right preparation, it could be stimulating, but as you know, a lot of sex happens in the mind. I don't believe she'd be turned on doing it, and if nobody is turned on, its kind of a waste of time! But I'd be willing to do it. As far as dom stuff goes, I do occasionally have her slap my penis around, HARD when she's giving me a hj. That I find hot.

    • "What's changed more for me is that I better understand now what I want during sex...Getting an orgasm is easy on my own, and yes, some acts feel a little better, but that's not the real point - its sharing sexuality, feeling desired...I didn't understand that when I was younger, or at least couldn't have expressed it" Thank god for men like you, it's so refreshing to read this, I'll be honest no 18-24 year old could write the same articulate answer and not have any hang-ups about it. Spot-on xx

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  • Not a fan of face sitting.

    Not a huge fan of anal either, to be honest.

    Tit sucking is good.

    Cunnilingus is definitely the tops.

    I can only assume that you're wondering about tastes changing because so many young kids seem to be reluctant to sup at the hairy cup. At least when I was a teenager, I heard many of the guys my age saying they wouldn't do that, and that they thought it was gross, and blah blah. At least of them is still a friend of mine (now married) and he still says he won't do it.

    As a teen, I kept my mouth shut. I didn't tell my friends I was a complete pussyholic and couldn't understand what the hell they were talking about.

    As for why not anal... well, it just doesn't do anything for me. If my girl wanted it, I'd do it, but I doubt I could come from it.

    • yeh it's true I find it's the one young ones that are so precious about themselves, not only oral but just their whole attitude is just about where can I stick my d*** or where should he cum, face or mouth? You know what I mean, thanks for the detail ;O)

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  • Well, I've had time to do it all - except for rimming (unless I forgot this while drinking long ago). One prostitute wrote in a '70s book an answer to why men come to her & pay for it. "I give them something they can't get at home". This included conversation, as well as sex positions. Her #1 request back then was BJ.

    So that's my track - what I don't get but RARELY is what I want. Oh, she is willing even though she can't orgasm this way, her hip hurts and it's very uncomfortable - she just can't do it w/o extreme pain IF she can get into the position.

    Cowgirl (on top facing me) with her voluptuous breasts hanging for me to suckle or massage, making my d*** grow even more & I fill her eventually with sperm; we lie there until everything goes soft again.

    • ooh nice answer, made me squirm a little...

  • I know it's an odd combonation, but I'm a masochist and I like my women hogtied!

    • thanks for the honesty, but this isn't your question pup ;O)

  • I'd prefer mutual orgasm while making love.

    Neck-sucking would be next, followed by finger-sucking. It feels so good and I like it when it drives my partner wild.

    Then cunnilingus because it is the most unselfish thing he can do to show her he cares. Plus she is comfortable enough to allow him down there.

    Then probably 69 as long as I don't get teeth. I like how most women lose focus when it feels good.

    Tit-sucking but it's not just that. Kisses all around, then putting the nipple in the mouth.

    Face-sitting next but I'm leery about not being able to breathe. I do like bigger women after all.

    Then probably bjs depending on other factors. Followed by tit jobs and anal in dead last. Other things that weren't mentioned like blindfolding would be somewhere in the middle.

    I'm more of a giver than a receiver.

    • ok good detail in your answer, thanks for taking the time to write. can I ask how old are you? also, being able to breathe is a MUST, right? no good if she suffocates you! I always think I will suffocate my man if I sit on his face for too long - he insists I won't but I suppose by American standards I'd be one of those bigger women (in that I have hips & boobs). Great answer ;O)

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  • I will have to be "all of the above" for me and that includes the update as well

    • good call, thank u

  • Seems I'm forbidden from answering since I'm a northern nipper. Love my face being sat on, let my 'evening queen' take her throne of pleasure

    • Lol, you'll do you're an honorary elder...

  • All of the above but for preference, cunnilingus. As for anal, I can't stand it.

    • really? why not anal, that is if you don't mind telling?

    • Just not my thing. Have tried it a couple of times and I don't like it. I suppose I consider it a poor substitute to what's in front of it. Had an ex who loved it but I didn't. I'm not saying that's the reason we broke up but it was part of the reason we were never going to make it long term.

    • ok I see, fair enough it's not for everyone. I'm shocked though it's only ever on GaG I've read about men who don't like either anal or bj's ;0)

  • 30 year old male. Recently single. I love to explore every inch of a woman's body. She deserves to be treated like a queen during sex and many forms of foreplay is a must. We performed cunnilingus many times, I licked, nibbled and sucked on her nipples, fingered her gorgeous, bald p**** and a number of times we enjoyed a 69.

    • Liking your style! Must admit I used to abhor the thought of a 69 - now it's my first choice for forepaly...hmmm ;0)

    • I just love 69ers and very very very much enjoy sticking my tongue right inside a ladies juicy p**** over and over

  • pretty much a waste of time for me to answer..u already know about me

    1) Top spot is (Big Surprise) CUNNILINGUS!

    2) Literal face sitting is not that great...but when she straddles my face(Riding the North Face) LOVE that

    3) I will suck t*ts np but usually only if I know that will please her

    4) Not an anal guy

    Adolescent? No..I am fixated...I have evolved somewhat but I like the same stuff now that I wished I could have at age 13...

    • i can always rely on you to come out and play where there is p**** being talked about ;O) long time no hear man, I hope you're well and keeping...hydrated xxx

    • LOL! I always enjoy your comments! Keeping Hydrated! PMSL ! Well vaginas/vulvas and the wonderful body fluids that spring forth...hmmmm ...VERY nice...always one of my favorite subjects..!

  • I love to eat pussy the most it’s my favorite

  • I like all those things, but--no surprise here--I'm going to pick t*t-sucking on that list.

  • Im mid 20's and hav been with my fiance 5 years. She started off really shy about her body, she was a 34AA, skinny and had a really hard athletic body, so she thought no guy would like her. Even sex with her bra off was a major thing.

    But now...she can ejaculate enougb to soak through an 18 tog duvet, loves me biting her clit and most of all begging me to come over her tiny little t*ts. What do I like best, her pushing her p**** into my face then cumming over my chest. F***I'm horny!

  • No anal...everything else is a go...especially during periods...also love fingering during cunnilingus

    • hey I knew you'd show up on here sooner or later...love two fingers with your tongue please mr'69 ;)

  • Tit sucking. Provided the tits are large.

  • anal is the best choice.

  • Most of the time all of the above.

    • this question's not for you pup!

  • i love playing with titties but I like it more when she stiks her finger up my ass while she's giving me head

    • yeh my man loves that too, he says it makes him come bucket-loads!

  • anilingus.

    • You presume much. I've got years of relationship experience on you. And for God's sake, google anilingus before you further embarrass yourself.