Its not a joke, it turns him on.
Look speak up. S&M is not a yes or no thing, there are lots of things, some things may turn you on, others may turn you off, you really need to communicate. A light slap may upset you when a much more painful bite turns you on.
Talk talk talk! Figure out what you both like or both want to try.1 0 0 0Spanking and holding your hands together is not the same as S&M. If you don't like something then simply ask him to stop or not do it anymore. Communication is the key to every strong relationship.
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Yeah, he's into s&m. But if he's doing it too hard you have to tell him. He doesn't have to stop but tell him your limit, if he's a good Dom, he'll understand. I think light s&m is fun but the really hardcore stuff is only for those that are really into it, and most people aren't.
0 0 0 0My boyfriends a lor like this. From my experience, he does it because he thinks it's hot. If you don't like something in particular that he does, tell him about it!
0 0 0 0Hmm I would say it is possible that it is starting to lead to it but it's not bad haha.
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0 1It could be bothways but you should definately talk to him about it.
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